13/02/2026
We all have an inner voice - but sometimes it isn’t very kind.
Unhelpful thinking styles can quietly shape how we feel and behave. You might notice patterns like:
All or nothing thinking (“If I can’t do it perfectly, there’s no point.”)
Mind reading (“They must think badly of me.”)
Catastrophising (“This will end terribly.”)
Harsh self criticism (“I should be coping better than this.”)
These thoughts aren’t facts, but they can feel very real, especially when stress, anxiety, or low mood are present.
At Turning Tides Therapy based Whiteley, we help you slow these patterns down, understand where they come from, and gently challenge them. Therapy isn’t about “positive thinking” or forcing change, it’s about developing a kinder, more balanced way of relating to your thoughts.
With the right support, thinking styles can soften. Perspective can widen. And emotional space can return.
You don’t have to believe everything your mind tells you.
Support is available - and change is possible.
Send us a message to see how we can help:
turningtides-therapy.co.uk