14/11/2025
Rather than asking yourself âHow bad do I want to be pain free?â try asking yourself something far more importantâŠ
âWHY do I want to be pain free?â
And once youâve answered that, ask yourself âwhy?â again.
Then again.
And again - 3, 4, even 5 times if you need to. Most people say things like:
âI want to get rid of this pain so I can feel better.â
Or
âI want to improve my mobility so day-to-day feels easier.â
Thatâs fine⊠But itâs surface level.
Thereâs no emotion behind it and without emotion, itâs almost impossible to stay consistent or committed when life gets busy.
Because hereâs the truth:
If you donât understand your real reason, youâll coast.
Youâll tolerate the pain a bit longer.
Youâll convince yourself itâs ânot that bad.â
Youâll get distracted, put things off, and pour your energy into everything except the one thing you say you want.
But when you dig deeper, when you hit that 4th âwhyâ - everything changes.
Thatâs when you realiseâŠ
Itâs not just about being pain free.
Itâs about being able to pick up your kids without worrying,
or spending time with friends and family without pain,
or train in the gym with confidence,
or go to work without feeling drained,
or having the ability to plan into the future without pain holding you back,
or even just wake up without dreading that same familiar ache every morning.
That emotional reason is what creates results.
Itâs what kept one of my clients pushing forward after 18 months of constant neck/shoulder pain.
He didnât stay consistent because he âwanted less painââŠ
He stayed consistent because his deeper âwhyâ was:
âI want my life back.â
And once we uncovered that, everything shifted.
He followed the plan, stayed accountable, trusted the process, and heâs now completely pain free and on a maintenance plan to keep progressing.
Thatâs what happens when your WHY is strong enough.
You stop doubting yourself.
You stay consistent.
You realise change is possible.
And those dips in motivation donât stop you because youâre driven by something far bigger than pain.
So ask yourself today:
Whatâs my real WHY?
And donât stop at the first answer.