31/01/2026
Children with Selective Mutism can be some of the loudest and most confident children at home or in situations they feel comfortable!
This is one of the biggest misconceptions we hear & it drives me mad!!! 🫣🤯
Yes, a child with Selective Mutism may look shy in some situations - but that’s not the whole picture.
👉 The truth is, Selective Mutism is situation-specific.
At home, with close family, they might be the most confident, loud, and animated child you know! 🤩
We have seen many children with Selective Mutism when they're comfortable and they are often the opposite to shy! 😃
Parents even tell us "you are going to think I've been making the SM up!!" but no, we understand.
Some children we've come across at Confident Children are actually born entertainers! Clearly born for the stage! 🎬📽️😃
No, they’re not shy - anxiety is holding them back in specific situations.
And when we understand that, we can help them in the right way...& with time their true self might shine through 🥰
You’ll find lots of free resources on the Confident Children website to help support children with Selective Mutism - link in the comments 😃