25/01/2026
❤️
I was talking to a friend recently about how easily we entangle with other people’s energies, their stories, emotions, and fears, without being consciously aware.
For years, I have been holding space for my husband, my immediate family, many friends, and my clients, without realising the impact this was having on me.
I have been living with ongoing physical issues. Many of these issues are part of my story, traumas, fears, and unresolved experiences that needed to be looked at and healed.
Then, at Glastonbury dowsing event, Spirit did not consent to me carrying out the testing. It came as a huge surprise. However, I have learned to trust Spirit and its guidance, and therefore, I respected what was shown to me.
A friend and client who was attending simply channelled: “Barbara, you are holding the space for everyone.”
And suddenly, I could see it a group of guides I work with tightening around the group and how much I was carrying, unconsciously.
That day, something shifted. Using my spiritual toolkit, I withdrew my consent to hold space for everyone unless I consciously chose to do so. I returned to my full sovereignty and unentangled myself from the energies of others to which I had not given consent, while still choosing to help and support where I can.
Since that moment, things have been moving differently.
I am more grounded, aligned and I have been manifesting in a way that feels embodied and true.
Some old symptoms still surface at times, not as a problem, but as reminders.
Old stories asking to be cleared, gently showing me where I no longer wish to return.
I’m still here for my husband, my family, my friends, and my clients in a conscious, sovereign way; it is the only way forward for all of us.
We all have many layers to clear, shaped not only by our own experiences, but also by the people we’ve carried along the way.
We are eternal beings, moving through lifetimes, each one leaving its imprint.
And this clearing the baggage, reclaiming sovereignty, and stepping into self-empowerment and freedom is how we find our truth.
