23/12/2025
The Window of tolerance is a concept developed by Dr Dan Siegel. It's a useful way of looking at where we might be on the emotional ladder and of how we are managing our stress levels and wellbeing. It's normal to move between the states.
Over this festive period, children and their parents/carers will find themselves moving throughout the various states between hypoarousal and hyperarousal. It's difficult to remain within the optimal centered window of tolerance at all times. Many stressor will trigger both children and adults over this next week. High expectations, sensory overload and lack of routine will knock many of us out of kilter.
Self awareness is important and noticing your possible triggers of when you are in danger of tipping too far either side of the window of tolerance will support your emotional wellbeing. Simple grounding techniques, fresh air and pressing the pause button will be helpful.
Remember we are not striving for perfection, everything will be fine, you have done enough!