24/08/2021
Hi everyone who has been invited to join this group.
This is a closed group only for people who wish to receive and give sponsorship support to go , 'NO CONTACT '. Going no contact is like trying to go sober from any addiction. I understand this as I went through it myself with all my narcissistic ex's.
This support is badly needed.
Because noone else can understand us and how to help than us ourselves. Please only volunteer to be a sponsor for someone else. If you feel you can help prevent them from going back to the abuser. By talking to them. They need encouragement that they can survive and thrive. Not be told it's pointless, or how they'll go back to the ex. That is not helpful and is not positive and it's simply not true. Because if you get 5he right sponsor, help. You won't go back. You'll recover at a sensible pace.
I do not support any bullying or negativity.
Please respect that.
Now, let's help you to help each other one on one support.
If you would like to volunteer as a sponsor partner for someone. Please type in the comments section , 'SPONSOR'.
If you need a sponsor for yourself . Please Type, 'SPONSOR NEEDED'.
As soon as you have found a sponsor and they have accepted you, or you have found someone to help by being a sponsor for them. Please Type in a post on the page , 'PAIRED UP'. This will help people see that you already are in your sponsor pairs.
I have only had the idea to set up this group.
But I will unfortunately only be available once a month.
So I am looking for someone who has the time and patience, knowledge to run this group for me.
I know it sounds a cheek. But seriously I really wanted to set it up to get it started to help people. I have health problems and disabled. Awaiting an operation since before covid. And trying to build a separate business when I'm Dyspraxic. So being Dyspraxic means I really struggle and get overwhelmed with to much, and forget things .
But I really wanted to set it up at least. As I could see lots of you struggling.
I'll do my best to be around to begin with. But I really do need someone to take over. As the fatigue and other things are getting worse from waiting for the operation.
Are you with me????
