The Youth Fairy Heathfield

The Youth Fairy Heathfield A modern, solution-focused approach to positive change for children, teens and young adults. I hold an Enhanced DBS and am fully insured.

I'm Vicki, therapist at The Youth Fairy, a team of Solution Focused therapists dedicated to improving the emotional well-being and mental health of children and teenagers suffering from anxiety, stress, anger, emotional regulation and low confidence. I offer a 1 hour consultation (free) face to face in Heathfield or online, to discuss your child's situation and how I can help them regain more emotional control and see them feeling happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time. As well as helping young people make these changes, I’m passionate that educating them on their mental health is such an important and essential part of the change process. By empowering them with this knowledge, we can help young people to develop more positive, healthy habits for life. In the consultation I’ll explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms. This understanding can be really motivational to children as they realise there is hope, see more clearly what we can do about it and how to promote more mentally healthy behaviours in the future. This knowledge is super helpful for you as a parent too - it allows for greater understanding, creates a common language to talk more easily with your child about their well-being and gives you specific ideas of how you can best support the process (and beyond). And because this modern, well researched approach is solution focused, it means your child won’t have to focus on the past in great detail or revisit traumatic events to make really positive change. Instead, it supports children to recognise their strengths and gives them the tools to move forward. You’ll also get my relaxation audio downloads to help improve any sleep problems they are having and support the process. Before training as a therapist and joining the Youth Fairy team I have a background in bereavement care and have assisted hundreds of families through their grief journey. This includes helping children cope with the loss of a family member, parent or sibling by enabling them to regain control of their feelings. Although grief is a specialist area, I also work with a range of other concerns such as anxiety, stress, trauma, low mood and low confidence/self-esteem.

🌙 Why Won’t My Child Sleep in Their Own Bed?Does bedtime feel like a constant battle in your house? You're not alone! Ma...
11/03/2026

🌙 Why Won’t My Child Sleep in Their Own Bed?

Does bedtime feel like a constant battle in your house? You're not alone!

Many parents face the challenge of getting their little ones to settle (and stay) in their own bed throughout the night. Whether it’s separation anxiety, fear of the dark, or just wanting extra cuddles, understanding the why behind this behaviour can make all the difference.💡

In our latest blog, we explore:

👉 The common reasons kids resist sleeping alone
👉 Practical tips to encourage independent sleeping
👉 How to create a bedtime routine that works for your family

Let’s flip that bedtime switch and turn bedtime battles into peaceful nights! 💤

💻 Read the full blog here: https://www.theyouthfairy.com/how-to-encourage-children-to-sleep-by-themselves/

Tag a parent who might find this helpful or share your own tips in the comments below! 👇

⭐️ Did you know?The Youth Fairy offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how we can help t...
10/03/2026

⭐️ Did you know?

The Youth Fairy offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how we can help them regain more emotional control and feel happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time.✨

🧡 We passionately believe that educating children about their mental health is an essential part of the change process, so we will explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms.

🧚 The Youth Fairy has a series of programmes that can help and inspire.

🧚 We work with & help a range of ages of children from primary school age right up to teens & young adults.

Head on over to our website to find out more

www.theyouthfairy.com

The best advice! 🙌Be yourself...Your wonderful self!( and maybe dance around the kitchen to Taylor Swift this morning!)
09/03/2026

The best advice! 🙌

Be yourself...Your wonderful self!

( and maybe dance around the kitchen to Taylor Swift this morning!)

⭐ NEW TESTIMONIAL ⭐It was so lovely to work with 7 year old Josie. She engaged so well in our sessions and really took o...
06/03/2026

⭐ NEW TESTIMONIAL ⭐

It was so lovely to work with 7 year old Josie. She engaged so well in our sessions and really took onboard all the brain based knowledge 🧠 we spoke about in our sessions. Such a positive change from the first initial consultation to now.

Full testimonial below 👇👇👇
"Vicki immediately put my daughter at ease, as she was understandably nervous having never had therapy before. From the first meeting onwards my daughter felt comfortable to share things with Vicki and spoke positively about the sessions.

We have noticed things being a lot calmer at home since my daughter started therapy. It is so lovely to see her properly laugh and seem happy again as well."

* Names changed for confidentiality.

🧚🤗 There is nothing better than a great BIG hug!Leave a ❤ if you agree!
05/03/2026

🧚🤗 There is nothing better than a great BIG hug!

Leave a ❤ if you agree!

💛 NEW BLOG POST 💛Body Image & Teens How to Help Your Child Feel Confident in Their Own SkinFor many teens, body image fe...
04/03/2026

💛 NEW BLOG POST 💛

Body Image & Teens How to Help Your Child Feel Confident in Their Own Skin

For many teens, body image feels like a rollercoaster confident one day, self-conscious the next. With social media, peer pressure and school life all shaping how they see themselves, it’s not always easy to know how to help.

In our latest Parent Pad blog, we explore:

🧠 What’s happening in the teenage brain

💬 How to respond in ways that calm anxiety, not amplify it

🌱 Small, solution-focused steps that build real confidence over time

The teenage brain is still developing, especially the part responsible for perspective and rational thinking. That means emotions around appearance can feel intense. But the good news is the brain is neuroplastic, so repeated positive experiences can literally rewire how teens see themselves. ✨

Body image isn’t about perfection, it’s about helping your teen build a kinder relationship with themselves. And your calm, consistent support makes more difference than you might think. 💫

Take a read here

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/helping-teen-feel-confident/

🧚 My SMILE for Parents programme is designed to help you regain a greater sense of emotional control and will support yo...
03/03/2026

🧚 My SMILE for Parents programme is designed to help you regain a greater sense of emotional control and will support you in making those positive changes in thoughts and behaviours you need to feel calmer, happier and much more confident as a person – and as a parent.

And the great thing is our Solution Focused approach means you don’t need to excessively talk about past problems, your perceived ‘parenting mistakes’ (even Youth Fairies have felt that completely unhelpful parent guilt) or trauma in order to get you back on top of things and feeling like yourself again.

Can help to...

✔️ Boost feelings of overall happiness
✔️ Cope calmly with everyday situations
✔️ Feel in control of reactions, thoughts & emotions
✔️ Rediscover your confidence & self-recognition
✔️ Develop a more positive outlook
✔️ Interact more positively with others
✔️ Cope better with life challenges
✔️ Improve connection with your child(ren)
✔️ Improve sleep problems

✨ Discover more here

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/programmes/smile-for-parents/

Celebrate your child’s unique spark - it’s the magic that can help shape a brighter world. ✨
02/03/2026

Celebrate your child’s unique spark - it’s the magic that can help shape a brighter world. ✨

A weekend dedicated to grief and bereavement support 🤍Bereavement group yesterday, and today I delivered CPD training on...
01/03/2026

A weekend dedicated to grief and bereavement support 🤍

Bereavement group yesterday, and today I delivered CPD training on working with grief and loss 📚

Supporting clients through loss and equipping other practitioners with the knowledge and confidence to do the same is work I feel truly passionate about 💛✨

💫TESTIMONIAL💫  I wanted to reshare from young Liam’s Mum. Liam was such a joy to work with. So glad he has a more positi...
27/02/2026

💫TESTIMONIAL💫

I wanted to reshare from young Liam’s Mum. Liam was such a joy to work with. So glad he has a more positive outlook and is coping much better now 🤩
Read the full testimonial below 👇🤩👇

“Vicki has been so welcoming and understanding. My son instantly felt comfortable with her which was so positive to see. Vicki has helped my son work through his problems and allowing him to have a much more positive outlook on life. Thank you so much for everything you have done.”

*Names changed for confidentiality.

💛 There's something wonderful about enjoying a game or two with the kids!Ready to play?
26/02/2026

💛 There's something wonderful about enjoying a game or two with the kids!

Ready to play?

📱 Smartphones are everywhere, but childhood doesn’t have to be.More and more parents are choosing to delay personal smar...
25/02/2026

📱 Smartphones are everywhere, but childhood doesn’t have to be.

More and more parents are choosing to delay personal smartphones, not out of fear, but to protect play, connection and emotional growth.

This weeks blog explores why a smartphone-free childhood can be a gift and shares gentle, practical ways to support it.

👉 Read more here

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/benefits-of-smartphone-free-childhood/

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