19/04/2024
I saw post this morning reflecting on ‘what is a positive birth?’ and it got my juices going…
I have done a lot of deliberating over this over the years.
Pre children my perfect birth was very focused on ‘achieving’ that intervention free water birth. 2 births down the line what I now realise is that, for me, a positive birth isn’t about HOW you birth, it’s about how you felt, how supported you were, did you feel informed, did you understand your options?
You can have a ‘perfect’ (on paper) spontaneous, intervention and complication free birth but can still feel very out of control or scared. Or you can birth completely differently to how you envisioned, potentially ending up with your ‘plan z’, but if you felt in control and informed, that can still be a really positive experience.
Antenatal education really is so important. Don’t just ‘see what happens’. It’s an experience that will stay with you forever.
Everyone deserves to come out of birth feeling bad ass- you just created and birthed a baby!
How do you reflect on your birth? And how do you feel your birth impacted on you postnatally?