18/03/2026
If this sounds familiar, you’re definitely not alone! There are some very normal developmental reasons why independent play can be short at this age.
Yael says:
“It’s because their attention span is still developing at this age! They might also be overwhelmed with too many toys, but mainly they don’t have that skill yet to extend the play.
They also crave connection, so something which can help is to get them going (get that connection first) and play with them for a little bit and then let them continue, gradually getting less involved.
What can also help is to rotate toys and only have a couple at any given time. You can also say ‘come and play for 5 minutes while I’m making dinner’ rather than just saying ‘play by yourself’. 🚙🚗
Last but not least, don’t forget to praise them when they do manage even a few minutes — everyone likes to be noticed and they will want to do more of it!”
Claire adds:
“Toddlers are still learning how to focus and concentrate. They are wired to be inquisitive and explore the world around them. This innate interest in what is going on around them can limit their attention span.
They are more likely to focus on something for longer if it interests them, or if they are getting other stimulation at the same time — for example, by someone playing with them.” ⚽
Sally explains:
“Toddler’s brains are wired to need attention and attachment from parents. They need you to guide them and help with emotional regulation and decision making. As they get older they will be able to play on their own for longer periods of time.” 🧸
✨ The takeaway:
Short bursts of independent play at this age are completely normal. With connection, encouragement, and a bit of structure, those 10 minutes will gradually grow.
Have you noticed anything that helps your child play independently for longer? Let us know in the comments 👇
