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How to nurture communication & learning through low pressure, child-led PLAY, so ALL children can grow in their own time, their own way🤸🏿‍♀️
Gran my Xmas bundle 👉🏻 https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1118947778 Independent Speech and Language Therapist offering a service to children of all ages, adults with Learning Disabilities and people living with dementia.

09/12/2025

5 ways a Scavenger hunt can help language & early literacy skills

Scavenger hunts aren’t about compliance or “getting through the list.”

When offered in a child-led, non-coercive way, they can support early literacy while honouring autonomy, unique learning needs, alternative ways of communicating, regulation, and joy.

🧠💬 Here’s how:
1️⃣ Symbols + Meaning�Using widget symbols alongside photos or real objects helps children connect visuals with meaning~ without pressure to name, label, or perform. Looking, matching, and noticing are all meaningful literacy experiences.

2️⃣ Outdoors : Side-by-Side Connection�Being outside naturally creates a shoulder-to-shoulder dynamic rather than face-to-face instruction. This can feel more equal and less demanding for many children. The outdoor environment also offers reduced stress and sensory input that can support calm and connection ~ especially if your child enjoys being outside. (If they don’t you can try this in an online world )

3️⃣ Movement Is the Learning�Walking, climbing, bending, and exploring are not breaks from learning ~ they are how learning happens. Movement supports memory, attention, and meaning-making, allowing literacy to grow through the whole body, not just sitting still.

4️⃣ Language & Literacy on Their Terms�Some children might point, some might sign, some might use AAC, some might vocalise, and some might stay quiet. All of these are valid ways of “reading” aloud. . Language & Literacy develop best when all methods are valued …

5️⃣ Autonomy Builds Engagement�When children choose the pace, the route, the objects, and when they’re done, engagement deepens. Following their lead supports trust, curiosity, and authentic learning.
🌈 Literacy doesn’t need to be table-top, adult-directed, or verbal.�It can be playful.�It can be embodied.�It can be led by the child.

🤍 It’s here if you want it.
A child-led Christmas scavenger hunt using widget symbols, created with autonomy, regulation, and joy in mind.
🎄 Link in bio.

Christmas songs aren’t just cute They’re a really important part of speech , language & literacy development.What’s your...
08/12/2025

Christmas songs aren’t just cute
They’re a really important part of speech , language & literacy development.

What’s your favourite children’s Christmas Song ?

We love Jingle Bells and When Santa got stuck in the chimney here !

Want more Xmas activity ideas to support early literacy ? Check out the link in my bio and grab yourself my Xmas bundle !
Not sure what Xmas dings to sing ?
Comment SONGS below for my favourite Xmas songs for each age / stage !

If your child is non speaking they can still join in. Hit follow to see my future posts and find out how …

05/12/2025

If your child is struggling to make speech sounds…
Don’t focus on articulation drills - Try this instead 👇🏻
Before children develop clear speech they need to be able to hear and play with sounds. (Phonological awareness)
They can do this through PLAY 🙌🏻🤸🏿‍♀️
Christmas offers tons of opportunities to develop these skills.
Instead of worksheets, flash cards or speech sound drills try:
Singing rhyming songs & carols
Listening to rhyming Christmas stories
Musical statues & musical bumps - add a layer of difficulty by jumping on a rhyming picture
when the music stops !

If you’d like more FUN and play filled phonological awareness activities it’s not too late to grab my Christmas Speech sound bundle !

Type LISTENING in the comments and I’ll send details over to your inbox. !
This can really help literacy development too - speech sound awareness and literacy are really closely linked . I’ve helped LOTS of children over the decades as a Speech & language therapist with speech sound difficulties. When we’ve focused on listening skills first their parents often tell me it’s really helped their literacy too !
(Or you can grab a literacy focused bundle instead of your child is ready for that - there’s a link in my bio if you want to know more
NB if it’s an articulation or motor difficulty affecting speech clarity then you may need a different approach . This doesn’t replace seeking advice from a .

04/12/2025

Christmas can be really overwhelming for so many children (and adults) - especially those who experience the world differently.
We can all feel the pressure to be going to activities and events , nativities and Christmas markets ..especially when we see so much on social media ..
But children don’t need all this to be learning language and growing. 
They don’t need perfectly planned activities.
They need moments like this.
The slow ones.
The cosy ones.
The ones where nobody’s performing or being asked hundreds of questions
Children learn in moments of connection . 
In co-regulation.
In safety.
In the soft rhythm of your voice while you chat about the tree, or the lights, or the smell of gingerbread, or absolutely nothing at all.
Those warm, in-between moments give their nervous system a chance to settle…
and that’s when language & learning has room to grow.
So if you’re choosing a calmer, more child-led Christmas this year:
✔ chatting about what you see
✔ sharing a song or rhyme
✔ telling a Xmas story
✔ following their lead
✔ letting them explore
✔ dropping the pressure
…it all counts. More than you know.

PS if you want weekly child-led ideas
📮 Comment COSY and I’ll send you. friendly relationship first tips you can use straight away.

And remember
You’re doing enough.
And these slow moments matter.

Oh and If you want simple, language & literacy ideas you can weave into your everyday December moments:
🎄 Grab my Christmas Speech + Language Bundle (link in bio).

If I had a pound for every time I hear this question ! But what about socialisation?This is a real fear people have abou...
03/12/2025

If I had a pound for every time I hear this question !

But what about socialisation?

This is a real fear people have about home education, but it’s built on the idea that school is the normal, natural, or best social environment. The research says otherwise.
Think about it.
School puts 30 same-age kids with one adult in a noisy, unpredictable room where interaction is timed, controlled, & often forced. That isn’t natural socialisation.
Studies in anthropology and developmental psychology show that mixed-age, community-based socialising is the historical and natural human pattern. Not age segregation (Rogoff, Lancy, Gray).
For many neurodivergent (ND) children, school actually reduces social wellbeing.
Sensory overload, unclear social rules, performance-based communication, and the pressure to mask can lead to anxiety, burnout and social withdrawal.
ND kids often prefer:
• One-on-one connection
• Parallel play
• Interest-based conversation
• Predictable environments
• Choice over when/how long to interact
These are valid social styles 👉🏻not deficits.
Home Ed gives space for real, authentic social connection. Home-educated kids interact with all ages: siblings, neighbours, friends, mentors, adults, mixed-age groups, clubs, in community spaces, and at interest-led meetups.
Self-directed education research shows:
• Mixed-age groups build stronger communication
• Older kids naturally mentor younger kids
• Younger kids gain language + social confidence
• ND kids thrive in autonomy and consent-based interactions
• Real-world socialisation is richer than classroom interaction

SO … how will they socialise?
Beautifully. Naturally. Authentically.
Because socialisation happens everywhere: and often better than in classrooms or playgrounds.
Is this something you worry about ?

03/12/2025

Not much notice but there’s a chance to “join a conversation “ about proposed SEND reforms - parents & professionals , APs etc .
I’ll pop a link in the comments .

𝟏𝟎 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐲 𝐒𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐋𝐄 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐞𝐜𝐡, 𝐋𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐋𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐲 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐦𝐚𝐬!Christmas is SUCH a magical way...
02/12/2025

𝟏𝟎 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐲 𝐒𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐋𝐄 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐞𝐜𝐡, 𝐋𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐋𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐲 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐦𝐚𝐬!

Christmas is SUCH a magical way to spend time with children ✨ 🎄 🧑‍🎄
it offers so many fun, simple yet wonderful ways to develop speech, language & literacy skills.

We spend more time together,
listening together,
discovering new things, going for winter wonder walks, reading stories, watching movies, making cookies, playing games, singing songs … and more!

Check out the 10 surprising (and simple) Christmas activity ideas that WILL help boost your child’s communication and literacy on my carousel photos here ⬇️

No pressure, and fit iinto natural daily life at Xmas!

𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐧 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 to do together to boost speech, language or literacy skills then head over to the link in my bio (also in comments) and 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐛 𝐦𝐲 🎄 𝐄𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐦𝐚𝐬 𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐥𝐞 ! 🎄

You can follow the advent calendar or just choose ideas to try together!

👉🏻✨Make sure you’re following your child’s lead though - if they’re not interested , overwhelmed by noise or lights , or feeling pressured … it won’t be fun .

And fun is when the BEST learning is done !

What’s your favourite way to spend time with your child over Christmas?
I’d love to know… !

29/11/2025

“Great ideas for both teachers *and* parents. I wish I’d had this to recommend when I was teaching in Early Years… and now I’m using it as a grandparent!”

I have to admit I melted a little when I read this. 🥹✨
Because this is exactly why I created the Early Literacy Christmas Bundle in the first place:

✔️ simple, play-based ideas busy parents can actually use
✔️ meaningful activities professionals feel confident recommending
✔️ completely flexible for different ages, abilities + communication styles
✔️ zero pressure, zero phonics, zero “sit still and do this worksheet”

When a former Early Years teacher tells me she’d *wish she’d had it* for her families : that’s such a heartwarming compliment.
And when she’s now using it as a grandparent? Even better.
That’s the power of child-led, relationship-first literacy: it fits every generation.

If you’re looking for:
• gentle ways to support early literacy
• festive activities without overwhelm
• something you can dip in and out of
• ideas that work for home ed, SEND or mixed-age families
• or just a calmer approach to December…

…this bundle was made for you. 🎄💛

Comment **BUNDLE** and I’ll send you the link to the full set ~ including the Advent Calendar full of play invitations.

27/11/2025

So many parents worry they’re “not doing enough” because their child isn’t interested in letters or isn’t grasping phonics yet…

But the secret no one really talks about is this:
Before children can understand phonics, they need a whole foundation of skills that come from PLAY 👉🏻 not sitting down to look at flashcards, or worksheets.
Things like:
• listening to everyday sounds
• building vocabulary through conversations
• sequencing daily routines (“first, then…”)
• noticing patterns and rhythms in the world
• exploring imagination and storytelling in play
• understanding meaning through real-life experiences
• developing attention in a gentle, child-led way
These are the skills that make reading click later.
And none of them require letters or flashcards at all.
The best part?
You can build all of this in the simplest, most natural ways 🙌🏻
👉🏻 baking together, going on a winter listening walk, pretend play , chatting about what you notice, listening for sounds, telling little stories about what you’re doing. Singing & clapping … dancing and moving your body..
This is all early literacy ! 
And it counts.
Massively..
Without these foundations literacy will be harder. Especially if a child has communication challenges or “delays”.

If you want ideas that make this even easier, my Early Literacy Christmas Bundle is full of simple, festive, play-based activities designed to strengthen all these foundation skills ~ without pressure, worksheets or sitting still.
Perfect for home ed, SEND, or families who just want learning to feel gentle. Created by me a Specialist Speech & Language Therapist - passionate about learning through play 🤸🏿‍♀️ No AI involved !

If you’d like the link you’ll find it under my name … or comment LITERACY and I’ll send it your way. 🎄💫

25/11/2025

Before a child can read, they need a STRONG foundation in listening and language skills.
Not letters.
Not phonics drills.
Not flash cards or tracing sheets.

Many children with communication difficulties don’t have those strong foundations … So it’s even more important that we give them time to develop these skills before we jump straight into phonics !

And the BEST way to build these skills?

✨ PLAY.
✨ Conversation.
✨ Real-life experiences.

Inside my Christmas Early Literacy Skills Bundle, every activity is designed to develop listening, attention, vocabulary, rhyming, rhythm and narrative skills ~ the REAL foundations of reading ~all while having lots of festive fun 🤸🏿‍♀️ 🎄

Perfect for ages 3–7, including SEND and home-educating families.

Send me a DM that says CHRISTMAS and I’ll send you the details 😀

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