04/09/2021
Some people are quick to label you a sh*tty person with no clue how broken you are and instead of understanding, they just call the u quits.
There are many people that have a night out planned, or arrange a coffee with ppl and suddenly the 4 walls they inhabit seem the only safe haven because it's the only place they don't have to pretend they are ok, so they cancel.
Or when they are invited out they tell their friends how terribly sorry they are but they're already booked up that weekend, when they are actually just really busy holding it together in their safe box.
So the first problem starts, all by itself.
People stop asking them out and the isolation that at first wasn't true becomes their only truth.
Please don't give up on your ppl. Ring them, go round, even when they don't want you to
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