13/02/2026
I used to tell myself the same lie most high performers do.
âI just donât have time right now.â
And on paper, it made sense.
Business was demanding more.
My responsibilities were growing.
My family deserved my presence.
Everything felt important.
Everything except me.
I wasnât lazy.
I wasnât unmotivated.
I was just last on my own priority list.
And the truth is, thatâs where most people in my position stay.
Not because they donât care.
But because they believe getting in shape requires more time than they can give.
That belief is what keeps them stuck.
Because the problem was never time.
It was trying to rely on motivation instead of becoming the person who handles their standards regardless of circumstances.
The shift happened when I stopped askingâŚ
âDo I have time?â
And started decidingâŚ
âThis is part of who I am.â
Not extreme.
Not obsessive.
Just non negotiable.
And once that identity locked in, everything else became easier.
Energy improved.
Focus sharpened.
Confidence came back.
I wasnât taking time away from my life.
I was upgrading how I showed up inside it.
This is what most people donât realise.
The busiest, most successful people arenât the ones with the most time.
Theyâre the ones who stopped waiting for the perfect moment and became the person who makes it happen anyway.
If youâve been telling yourself youâre too busy, I understand.
I told myself the same thing once.
Until I decided that version of me wasnât who I was anymore.
If this hit home, send me the word IDENTITY.
Iâll see if I can help.