20/06/2018
Take the time to have a watch, lots of chuckles throughout this and thought provoking moments.
Something to ponder too..
How do we love?
Do we tell our partner what love looks like for us?
Have we asked them what they expected it to look like?
Are we running the same programme?
For example if your love programme is to talk, cuddle and be tactile and tell them you love them, compliment them etc...This is what your family did and this is how you do love.
But your partners is to show their love through actions not words. Work hard, be controlled provide, tidy up, do their bit.
This is what their family did and so this is their example.
You're untidy but you say I love you and kiss them everyday...
What do they see ?
They never say they love you but do jobs to keep the house and garden tidy. Check car for petrol, safety etc...
What do you see?
Are you both showing love in the way you've learn, but you question it, as its not your way...?
Some times it good to have the conversation of how we like to be loved, so we can show each other the way that works for us both.
No one is the same as we all have different experiences and we're not mind readers, we need to tell each other and then you can both feel loved 💕
This video sees Alain de Botton, Creator of The School of Life and narrator on the majority of our videos, talking at a Google event in London in 2017. This ...
