19/10/2025
The impulse of trying to fix someone’s feelings isn’t about them—it’s a reflection of the distorted patterns, emotional dysregulation, and unmet needs within us.
When we understand the wounded patterns that create this impulse, we can illuminate them for ourselves and our clients.
→ codependency: needing to fix and save others to feel worthy
→ unhealed trauma: reacting to triggers rooted in past experiences that feel familiar (and are still stored in the body)
→ avoidance: trying to manage your internal discomfort by controlling the external situation
→ emotional dissociation: using their feelings and situation as a way to avoid and detach from your own
→ porous boundaries: assuming responsibility to fix them, disregarding your own needs and limits
→ fear of abandonment: trying to fix to prevent perceived rejection or disconnection
→ enmeshment: loss of sense of self, unable to differentiate your feelings from theirs
Remember that in this example, trying to fix someone’s feelings is the SYMPTOM—but in order to heal, we need to identify the core wound.
In ALIGN, you’ll learn how to heal yourself and become a Certified Spiritual Life Coach, Intuitive Energy Healer & Hypnotherapist.
🔥This work teaches you how to trace the symptoms to the core wounds using your intuition, energy healing, and trauma modalities—so that SOUL-level evolution can occur.
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