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18/04/2026

After years of managing hEDS reasonably well, histamine has been the piece that hasn’t settled.

For me, that’s looked like:

Itching, flushing, persistent skin problems
Burning tongue
Chronic hay fever
Digestive issues, reflux
Wheezing, asthma symptoms
Brain fog, fatigue, chronic pain

It all ramps up at night which is when sleep is significantly impacted.

Over time, a pattern started to emerge.

MCAS kept coming up as a potential missing layer.

Mast Cell Activation Syndrome is only just being recognised within the NHS, which tells you something about how long people have been navigating this without a framework.

I’m starting targeted treatment next week and I’m genuinely curious what shifts.

These things cluster.

hEDS, MCAS, neurodivergence they don’t sit in neat boxes. They stack. They interact.

Clinically, I’m seeing similar patterns in clients:

Sensory sensitivity
Broken sleep
Gut issues
Volatile states
Persistent skin issues
Running eyes and nose

Sometimes histamine is part of the picture and no one’s looked there yet.

I’m sharing what I’m exploring and what I’m seeing.

Watch this space.....

17/04/2026

I watched a Sky News segment this week where Wes Streeting spoke about institutional patterns in women's healthcare.

I’ve shared a still from it rather than the video, because I don’t want it to overshadow what I’m about to say.

I also tried to find clear written coverage of what was said, and struggled to find anything that fully captured it.

What he described is not abstract to me.

I have both experienced and witnessed the same patterns he is naming within women’s health. Where symptoms are minimised, credibility is questioned, and the response you receive is shaped as much by how you are perceived as by what you are presenting with.

Hearing him name it so clearly made something click.

Because the same pattern exists in SEND.

He named how medical misogyny operates institutionally. Not through individual bad actors, but through systems that present as objective and needs-led, while applying informal credibility judgements that are never examined and never made explicit.

That is exactly what I see happening in SEND.

The law is clear. The process exists. The legal rights are there. There is nothing inherently wrong with the legal framework. It clearly sets out the pathway through which children’s needs should be identified and met.

The problem is not the law.
The problem is compliance with it.

The same type of evidence, from the same independent OT, can be accepted in one case and refused in another. By the same team. With no clear threshold for why.

It is not about the quality of the assessment.
The response shifts depending on who is in the room, what pressure the team is under, and who is read as credible.

That is not a needs-led system. That is institutional credibility gatekeeping dressed up as professional judgement.

The result is that families are not just struggling to challenge decisions. They are struggling to have the legal process followed at all. To have their children’s needs properly recognised. To access support that the law already says they are entitled to.

Tribunals repeatedly find that local authorities have not followed the law. The same patterns appear again and again. This is not isolated. It is systemic.

As a neurodivergent woman with hypermobility, functional neurological disorder, at perimenopausal age, and a history of birth trauma, I am not a neutral observer of what happens when institutions decide whose presentation is believable and whose isn’t.

Streeting naming it in healthcare this week felt significant. Because it showed what it looks like when someone in a position of power is willing to name institutional harm clearly.

We need that same level of clarity and accountability in SEND.

At the moment, concerns are being raised by families, professionals, and some MPs. However they are still being debated, minimised, or dismissed, rather than openly acknowledged at leadership level.

And at the same time, current reform proposals risk reducing accountability further, returning more decision-making power to the same institutions that are already being found, repeatedly, to have failed to follow the law and causing harm to children.

15/04/2026

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13/04/2026

There are over 160,000 children currently severely absent from school in England. A 167% increase since before the pandemic. The majority are neurodivergent. These are the children this article is about.

This is my caseload.

Almost every child I work with clinically sits within what this article calls the “Sanctuary Cohort”. The children for whom school is no longer tenable, whose nervous systems have coded the environment as threat, and who need something fundamentally different to recover.

These children don’t fall through the cracks. They are pushed through them by services that reframe severity as anxiety, dismiss distress as behaviour, and apply more structure to a system that already broke them.

This is the very group for whom mainstream inclusion has been the source of the damage, not the solution.

What I see daily: families fighting for recognition while being told their child just needs a better routine. Professionals without the training to understand what’s happening in the body. Systems under so much pressure that acknowledging the true level of need feels impossible, so the need gets minimised instead.

And now, the proposed SEND reforms threaten to remove the very mechanisms these families depend on.

EOTAS isn’t mentioned once in the Schools White Paper.
EHCPs. The only legally enforceable protection for these children’s provision, risk being stripped back.
Tribunal rights are already being eroded.

For families already on their knees, this isn’t reform. It’s the removal of the last safety net.

The question we should be asking is: why?

Why would a government reforming the SEND system choose not to mention the provision that keeps the most vulnerable children alive and learning?

Is it an oversight?
Or does the system become easier to reform when the children who prove its necessity are no longer visible?

Someone has to hold the clinical expertise for this group. That’s what I do. And there aren’t enough of us.

If you’re working with children in school distress, I want to hear what you’re seeing.

https://www.specialneedsjungle.com/part-2-invisible-lifeline-eotas-non-negotiable-sanctuary-cohort/?fbclid=IwdGRleARJbENleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEept1CJrtb-IqwdzESZ4JuNwl61hB9NEN5S4zLK7v5wupEBwkXY8T4hZnrYs8_aem_PigmchfKINKvBqJYlxppXw

Part 2 The Invisible Lifeline: A closer look at the life-changing impact of EOTAS & why the Government must protect all SEND children's rights

13/04/2026

The SOCR campaign calls them the Sanctuary Cohort and I understand why.

Sanctuary is what these children are seeking. It names the need for safety. It affirms that something in the environment has become intolerable, and that recovery requires something different. EOTAS provides that.

I call them the Invisible Cohort.

Because the issue isn’t that these children need sanctuary, of course they do.
It’s that the systems around them don’t see them. Don’t recognise what’s happening. Don’t name it.

And now, don’t even mention them in a national reform.

The invisibility operates at every level.

The child who masks as “fine” in school until they collapse.
The professional who doesn’t understand the nervous system presentation.
The local authority that minimises need to manage budget.
And now, a White Paper that leaves them out altogether.

“Sanctuary” describes what the child needs.
“Invisible” describes what the system does to them.

This is my caseload.

Almost every child I work with clinically sits within this group.

I see them.

https://www.specialneedsjungle.com/invisible-lifeline-eotas-non-negotiable-sanctuary-cohort-pt1/?fbclid=IwdGRleARJfx5leHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEeOdpJxRe19PtwSjCoNoxWlpgmlvQObsYmZGUIcKFEDFH0X0Z5u5CPUxxR4nQ_aem_KmyFRkBL8kIh6jKRtASUrQ

The Invisible Lifeline: Why EOTAS is Non-Negotiable for the ‘Sanctuary Cohort’, who have been ignored by the Schools White Paper's SEND proposals

10/04/2026

It’s Occupational Therapy Month.
Which makes this feel like the right time to name a pattern I’m seeing in practice.

This is not an isolated experience. I see this repeatedly in my work.

I work with complex neurodivergent children and young people with multiple diagnoses and significant comorbidities, where the impact on daily life is substantial.

By the time they reach me, there is often already a pattern of severe occupational deprivation. Children unable to access education, social participation, or basic self-care in a consistent and sustainable way.

This is not low-level difficulty.

This is high-impact need, where unmet or misunderstood need carries risk. To development, mental health, family stability, and long-term outcomes.

What I am assessing is how that risk emerges from the interaction between the child, their environment, and the demands placed on them and developing pathways back into meaningful occupation.

This is specialist, applied occupational therapy. It is an extension of core principles, not a departure from them.

And yet, when this level of clinical reasoning is applied, it is often reframed.

Needs are reduced or reinterpreted to fit existing provision.

Recommendations are challenged.

Attempts to evidence the full picture are not taken forward.

The result is that children remain in cycles of unsuccessful engagement sometimes for years.

In occupational therapy terms, that is not neutral.

It is prolonged occupational deprivation.

And the clinician identifying that gap is the one whose practice is questioned.

At the same time, families are frequently positioned as unreliable their accounts described as narrative, subjective, or inconsistent. Even when they are describing the same patterns that emerge later through more detailed assessment.

Decisions are then made, and reports scrutinised, by professionals who have not met the child or family. To determine whether recommendations align with what can be provided.

Those interpretations are presented as evidence.

So what happens in practice is this:

Need is not assessed independently.
It is filtered through what is available.

And when it exceeds that, it is challenged.

The result is that many of these same cases progress to tribunal. Where the level of need is later recognised.

If that pattern is playing out consistently, then the question is not about individual reports or individual families.

It is about the process itself.

Because at that point, we are not just discussing difference in professional opinion.

We are looking at a system where the boundaries of provision are shaping how need is defined.

This raises clear questions about professional standards, accountability, and information governance.

Because our obligation is to the person in front of us not to the limits of a system.

If you are a practitioner seeing this pattern, or a family who recognises this from your own experience, I would be interested to hear.

The SEND consultation is open until 18 May.

If this is happening routinely for complex clients then this is exactly the kind of evidence it needs to hear.

08/04/2026

There is a lot of talk about inclusion.

But we don’t talk enough about what happens when the system simply doesn’t fit.

Because for some people, it doesn’t.

And when that happens, what I see is this:
we don’t redesign the system…

We push the person harder.

But some people don’t need more pressure.
They need different thinking.

They need creative, outside-the-box solutions that actually meet how they process, relate, and experience the world.

And here’s the part I don’t think we’re asking enough:

Where are the systemic thinkers in these designs?

The people who can see the gaps.
The people who can join the dots.
The people who can build something that actually works often more simply, and more cost-effectively.

Because right now, what happens too often is this:

When someone’s processing isn’t understood or supported properly,
it gets labelled as “complexity”.

And over time, that turns into:
mental health difficulties,
burnout,
physical symptoms,
disengagement.

Not because that was inevitable…

but because nothing ever channelled it in the right way.

And to be clear this isn’t all neurodivergent people.

Many can manage in mainstream or specialist systems.

But there is a group who don’t fit in either.

And continuing to design systems for the majority, while forcing everyone else to adapt, is where things start to break down.

Because what looks like “complexity”
is often just unmet, misunderstood potential.

06/04/2026

Current narrative: "If diagnostic support is available, it becomes a gateway to overuse. People will use it, so we should remove it."

Let me get this straight.

We've fundamentally altered every system that shapes child development over 40 years.

Created a perfect storm of biological, environmental, social, and technological changes that developing nervous systems were never designed to handle.

And when children predictably struggle, the solution is... remove support so they can't access it?

If we were living in a well-functioning society where children's needs were met, why would families be queuing for these "gateways" in the first place?

The same logic applies to welfare, mental health services, educational support - blame people for needing what we've made necessary.

Maybe the question isn't "How do we stop people using support?" but "Why have we created a world where so many people need it?"

03/04/2026

Why are both adults AND children struggling more than ever? Fit notes up. School exclusions up. Mental health referrals through the roof. Here's what's actually changed in the last 40 years..

Not one thing.
Many things, across multiple areas of life.

The scale and speed of change over the last 40 years is unlike anything we’ve seen in modern history.

• Birth has become increasingly medicalised, while postnatal support has largely disappeared

• Diets now include a higher proportion of processed and convenience foods

• Screen use is integrated into daily life, across work, education, and leisure

• Access to information, including distressing or explicit content is immediate

• Social interaction increasingly takes place in digital environments

• Time spent outdoors and in unstructured play has reduced

• Education systems have shifted towards earlier and more sustained academic demands

• Class sizes have increased, with varying levels of available support

• Global events and news are continuously accessible

• A global pandemic that altered routines, education, and social experiences

• More households rely on dual incomes, often with longer working hours

• Children are spending more time in formal childcare and structured settings

• Extended family and community-based support is less consistently available

• Microplastics in our blood, forever chemicals in our water, pesticides in our food, air pollution in our lungs

• Use of medical and pharmaceutical interventions has expanded

• Daily life involves higher levels of noise, light, and sensory input

• Opportunities for rest, boredom, and recovery are reduced

• Expectations on parents have increased, with more information and less shared support

None of these changes exist in isolation.

They interact.
They accumulate.
And they shape how both children and adults experience the world.

So when we see rising levels of distress, burnout, or differences in how people cope…

It may be worth asking:

What are we all being asked to process, every day?

Our nervous systems haven't evolved. They're still wired for a world that no longer exists - detecting threats, seeking safety, responding in ways that made sense thousands of years ago.

For neurodivergent people, these threat-detection systems often run even more sensitively. So when the environment becomes more overwhelming, more unpredictable, more demanding - the mismatch becomes more disabling.

It's not that neurodivergence is new. It's that the gap between what these brains need and what the world provides has widened dramatically.

So when we see more fight, flight, freeze responses... more primitive behaviours under stress... it's not pathology.

It's biology meeting an environment it was never designed for.

Because it's rarely one factor. It's the total load.

I'm curious - where do you feel this total load showing up most in your life?

02/04/2026

I genuinely thought we would never swim.

My son came into the world not breathing. Water, the thing I love most, the thing my family were made for became the place that dysregulated him for years.

I’m an OT with 22 years of experience in mental health and neurodivergence. I’m also ADHD and autistic. And I still pushed against my own judgment sometimes, because the noise around me was that loud.

This piece is about birth, and water, and readiness, and what we get profoundly wrong when we tell parents to push through.

It’s also about what I watched my son do at the pool last Sunday and why it made me think that the full circle moments are always worth the wait.

I genuinely thought we would never swim. My son came into the world not breathing. Water, the thing I love most, the thing my family were made for, became the place that dysregulated him for years. I'm an OT with 22 years of experience in sensory integration and neurodivergence. I'm also ADHD and au...

02/04/2026

Over 1.7 million children in England now have SEN. That's nearly 20% of all pupils - the highest rate since records began.

I'm curious about what's changed.

After 22 years as an OT, I've been mapping patterns across the last 40 years. The timeline is fascinating.

We've fundamentally altered multiple systems that shape child development - simultaneously. Biological, environmental, social, technological.

I'm asking questions about these correlations.

Tomorrow I'll share what's been added/changed to children's lives since 1985. The map is interesting.

28/03/2026

I’m not always mute in a social situation. But sometimes I am completely mute.

I don’t always skip the pleasantries. But sometimes I can’t produce them at all.

And I think that’s the bit that throws people.

Because if I did it last time, why not this time?
What’s actually happening is it depends. On where I am. Who’s there. How much I’ve already spent that day. Whether I feel any real connection.

It’s not a personality trait. It’s a calculation my nervous system is running in the background.

And it changes.

Sometimes I seem absolutely fine in a social situation. But inside I’m on fire. Physically. It’s not discomfort. It’s pain. And nobody sees that part.

And then I get home. And I replay it. That one thing I said. Or didn’t say. Or the way someone responded. That can run for hours. Days sometimes.

That’s the cost that doesn’t show up on the outside.

For a lot of neurodivergent people, inconsistency isn’t unreliability. It’s context sensitivity. We’re responding to what’s actually there, not running a script regardless.

The social fallout comes when people can’t make sense of that. One day fine. Next day nothing. So we get read as rude. Hard work. Unpredictable.

When actually we just can’t fake it when it isn’t there. And when we do, we pay for it later.