04/12/2025
What sort of comments have you had thrown at you?
“you’re good at everything”, “it’s alright for you you’re skinny”, “you did this”, “I’m not coming if you do that”….conditions, manipulation, fear fear fear toxic relationships
These sort of comments are a tiny part of the felt energy underneath these words, these words resembling jealousy, control, manipulation, threat and of course if you’ve let your self discovery go as far back as the witch wounds a way bigger picture is there.
So, what does this teach us? To not care what people think? To not allow this behaviour to continue? Yes easy to say and add in a charge of hope that the full moon will finally release this away 😂😂
The sensitivity of the reaction from people can feel like a whole body zapping. A consuming feeling that puts an instant knot in the stomach.
Over the years Ive studied this, I learnt when someone was projecting their fears onto me, to not take that on and instead be with the feeling of what was happening in my body.
I could watch out for when my mind would leak energy into working out why the person would “say that”, “do that”, “behave in that way”, especially when I couldn’t quite put my finger on it!! And how this is interrelated to addictive patterns to escape the feeling.
It’s all rooted in self-doubt, decision-making, confidence work. From friendships to intimate relationships and the vulnerable parts allowing yourself to be controlled.
When it shows up it shows up everywhere 🤪 I’d caught the thread of it so I could explore this further and bring my power back
This coming Monday the embodiment yoga class at 7pm covers this theme of the solar plexus chakra (building confidence, self-esteem, how you digest life and experiences)
Or if you’d like to really make headway once and for all then consider joining Hibernate in January online, to address emotional eating, unhealthy relationships and then confidently walk into life come the Spring radiant and ready to glow in your own way ✨💫
Love Eloise here to spread hope and inspiration no matter what Stephenson ###
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