05/12/2025
Some people get stuck in overthinking thought loops for hours whilst others don’t. The difference isn’t strength of willpower, it’s what their brain has learned to do with uncertainty.
Uncertainty isn’t the brain’s favourite state. When your central nervous system doesn’t feel safe, not knowing feels threatening. It tries to resolve the unknown by going through every possibility again and again.
It’s not that something is wrong, it’s the brain’s default safety behaviour. When it can’t predict, it loops through thoughts to create a sense of control.
It tries to fix by thinking harder. That’s how worry and rumination start. It’s the brains way of trying to protect you. The more this happens, the more your brain learns that overthinking keeps you safe. A pattern is established and even tiny uncertainties can create hours of worry.
Working together, we can change all that. You weren’t born this way, it’s something your brain learnt how to do, a while back when you felt unsafe . Part of you still feels that way and so the pattern continues. When you feel safe again in the present, that pattern has no need to continue . So it stops. Sounds simple and it really is. It learns to do things in a better way.
Imagine what that would do for you . Give me a call and let’s chat about how I can help .