20/02/2026
Maddy dog seems to be able to sleep any place, anywhere! She even falls out of her bed sometimes and doesn’t even wake up.
We need sleep to recharge and rest and when anxiety kicks in and the mind goes into high alert, it’s the first thing that tends to go. And then everything feels worse …it’s little wonder that sleep deprivation is a torture!
We often then make things worse for ourselves because we make it become a performance. We measure it. We monitor it. We track it. We score it.
And that can make you worry more and so you monitor it more and the vicious cycle continues. The more you try to control and measure sleep, the worse it gets.
Not because information about sleep is bad but because sleep is not a task you complete like a performance. It’s a biological response to safety . You can’t force the body and mind to rest and reset by monitoring it harder.
One of the first things people feed back after the very first session of working together, is how well they start sleeping .
Calm the high alert anxious state and sleep resumes easily and naturally. No monitoring, no measuring, it just feels safe . What would that do for you ? Get in touch and let’s chat about how I can help .