Your Options Understood

19/01/2026

This morning Y.O.U and I will be delivering Access to Work training in partnership with the Apt Scotland as part of their Apt Glasgow Project.

Despite the continuing challenges Y.O.U and I continue to face as a result of the Welfare Reform and the cuts to the scheme we remain committed to promoting how, we'll the scheme can work if implemented correctly to help disabled people find and retain employment. putting them on a equal par with their non disabled peers.

If you are interested in engaging with this or any of Y.O.Us training programmes being delivered with your organisation to upskill your staff and to help make your organisation disability confident get in touch now, by emailing youroptionsunderstood@gmail.com or by calling 07938998091

We look forward to hearing from you 😊

16/01/2026

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This week Mattel launched their first autistic barbie in partnership with The Autistic Self Advocacy Network. The doll was created with guidance from the autistic community to represent common ways autistic people may experience, process and communicate in the world around them.

It is an aspiration of mine for Y.O.U that we can work with companies like Mattel to develop what they are already building around the representation of disability and help them create barbies that mainstream disability. Ideally I would envisage Y.O.U being a voice for disabled people, pushing the boundaries of disability and emphasising that everyone should be encouraged to embrace their own identity and that disability should never only be represented medically in the toys that children play with. Instead it should be normalised...because guess what, disabled people are normal!

AI helped me generate two potential dolls, one based on Y.O.U's avatar and one based on me, Dr Danielle Farrel. We tend to come as a package as you know if you follow Y.O.U's work but both dolls represent what Y.O.U stands for and how we would like to see disability represented in children's toys.

So Mattel if you are reading this come and have a chat with Y.O.U and we will help you not only further mainstream disability in your barbies but we will also help you make inclusion trendy and part of every day life instead of being represented medically and as something to fix.

15/01/2026

Photos from Saturdays workshop with the University of Strathclyde . After yet another challenging day sometimes you need a reminder of why I do what I do even if systems continue to have low expectations of us disabled people

12/01/2026

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Y.O,U Dream Plan Live programme still has places available to support disabled people and families with Person-Centred Planning.

This programme is fully funded by The National Lottery Community Fund Scotland aiming to support disabled people and their families to dream big, plan for the future and remove the barriers that they often face. Click the link below to find out more about the programme and to hear from other about how beneficial the support provided is and how impactful it can be in improving peoples lives.

https://youroptionsunderst.wixsite.com/y-o-u/dream-plan-live-programme

If you feel that you, your loved one or someone you work for would benefit from the Dream Plan Live programme please get in touch and help us ensure that people in need are supported to dream, plan but most of all LIVE the life they have the RIGHT to lead.

Email - youroptionsunderstood@gmail.com

Tel - 07938998091

Or make a referral on the website

12/01/2026

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It's been a while since Y.O.U has had a merchandise Monday... Take advantage of our 20% off code and head over to the shop at www.youroptionsunderst.wixsite.com/y-o-u and treat yourself to something in our winter sale. At the same time you will also be helping Y.O.U to raise our profile and promote that the voices of disabled people need to be heard.

20% off with code WINTER2026SALE — limited-time winter sale! Use at checkout to save on select items. Link in Bio

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31/12/2025

Well what can I say 2025, I'm more than ready to say good riddance. This has been without a doubt, one of the most challenging years so far both personally and professionally

Of course there have been some positives, continuing to watch my niece Maisie grow into the wee character she has become and building a close bond with her. This year spending time with her has become one of my few happy places.

Moving to having my own team of PAs who support me to live this thing called life has been a plus too.

I've learned a lot too. I've learned that life can literally change at the drop of a hat so take nothing for granted, that I can't always do life myself and that i need people to lean on too and that's okay

This year I've also learned that party planning is not my dream job but I'm glad I could do it, if only to ensure my dad had a special night to celebrate his 80th and to bring together extended family and friends to help him enjoy his celebrations. I'm very grateful to everyone that made that happen and to those who continue to support us. I couldn't do it without you

On a professional level i'm just grateful to have a business and a job as well as my sanity after feeling the negative impact of the welfare reform as a disabled person in work and who only wants to sustain employment. Your Options Understood (Y.O.U) and I appreciate those you that have and continue to help us navigate this challenging landscape.

Y.O.U and I would also like to thank our colleagues, friends, partners, customers and networks and best wishes for the new year.

So 2025, that's a wrap (almost)

2026, you're nearly here...Can I see the terms and conditions first??

Happy New Year when it comes🥳

30/12/2025

IS IT REASONABLE TO EXPECT EVERY VENUE TO BE ACCESSIBLE?

This was a comment left on one of Y.O.Us other social media platforms after we posted highlighting the inaccesibiliy and exclusion disabledm people face day in, day out even when tryixg to enjoy drink in a local pub wih friends. Something a lot of you reading the post will take for granted.

From the financial and reputational benefits, to complying with legislation, to proving that you're investing in disabled people and not tolerating exclusion, it just makes good business sense to ensure that your business is inclusive and acessible for all

If you're still unsure about what inclusion means for your business and or if you want to find accessibiliity solutions that are tried and tested by disability consultants who wont shy away from being open and honest about how you need to improve your accessibility get in touch with Y.O.U now

email:'youroptionstnderstood@gmail.com

Tel:'0793899801

We look forward to hearing from you
Remember we are not here to judge or to criticise. Authenticity, accessibility and inclusion benefit everyone

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25/12/2025

Merry Christmas everyone from Y O.U and I and one of my PA's Hayleigh⛄

22/12/2025

Last hairdo of 2025 for Y.O.U and I

Pink and purple with pink and purple love hearts. Thanks Jacquiline Beggs ❤️ I love it🧡

20/12/2025

a nice but chilly afternoon at the Christmas Market🎄⛄🎅

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16/12/2025

The word 'Legless' -A second one for my no offense taken series

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16/12/2025

The first in my No Offense Taken series

The series where I talk about some of the things that might have potential to offend disabled people but that just make me laugh😀🤣😂

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