25/11/2024
7 lessons from 7 years of marriage ❤️⬇️
💍 Marriage is a commitment. Don't do it if you're not all the way in. Sometimes, especially early on, you'll have moments that resemble a rom com happy ending. It won't always be that way. Be prepared to work through some tough times together.
💍 Nothing is perfect. That doesn’t mean it can't be great. The person you live with driving you round the bend? Pretty normal. As long as there's always respect, you're probably gonna have to put with at least some annoying crap 🤦♀️😂.
💍 There's no point comparing your marriage to anyone else's. Comparing your behind the scenes to someone else's social media highlight reel? Don't. You have no idea what their life is like behind closed doors.
💍 Practice gratitude 🙏. Easier said than done when someone hasn't figured out how to put their socks in the washing basket after 7 years 😂 Seriously, this is huge. It stops the bitterness and resentment that can build up from being taken for granted. It'll also help you feel closer, more appreciated & happier. Win, win, win ❤️.
💍 Keep being you. You're part of a couple, yes. But you're still a fabulous individual. Take care of your health, your money, your hobbies, your friends. You'll be happier. Stronger. A healthy marriage? Will be stronger for it.
💍 Find magic in the mundane. Even if the love of your life is a party animal, much of your life will be normal, routine, every day stuff. Our magic is making each other laugh. We're idiots together 😂. It's important ❤️.
💍 Create an adventure. It can't all be boring, of course. Make memories together. Stuff you can look back on with fondness for years to come. We have SO many travel mishap stories that never get old. Like travelling around France with a cat. Bloody hard work at the time, but funny to look back on 🤦♀️😂.
And, if you really think about it, all these lessons can be applied to health as well.
Let me know your experience of marriage. Any lessons you'd add? ⬇️❤️