SEND Family Guidance

SEND Family Guidance Trusted support for parents and families of children with suspected neurodivergence or learning difficulties. Early intervention is key!

We offer assessments, guidance, help with forms such as DLA/PIP, SEND Tribunal support, post-diagnosis care & more.

26/02/2026

Reaching out today doesn’t mean you’re committing to spending money.

It means you’re gathering information.
It means you’re trying to understand your options.
It means you’re advocating for your child.

Sometimes families just need clarity — where they are in the process, whether they have grounds to appeal, what mediation actually involves, or whether the wording in their EHCP is lawful. That initial conversation is about guidance, not pressure.

And if you do decide you want someone to walk alongside you through appeals, mediation or Tribunal — you’re in the right place.

I offer professional SEND advocacy and representation. I’m not a solicitor, but I am highly experienced in building strong, evidence-based cases, understanding SEND law, and securing the best possible outcomes for children.

I can support with:
• Appeal form completion (SEND35)
• Evidence gathering and organisation
• Position statements and case building
• Liaison with the Local Authority and SENDIST
• Mediation preparation and attendance
• Tribunal representation

I’m the halfway house between doing it alone and paying full legal fees — offering personalised, knowledgeable support without the overwhelming cost.

So if you’re unsure, overwhelmed, or just need to talk it through — send the message. Ask the question. Start the conversation.

You don’t have to commit to anything.
But you also don’t have to do this alone.

25/02/2026

“You have the medical reports and you know what your child struggles with every single day, yet the Local Authority still denies your application. It’s crushing. Here’s what they’re actually looking for: proof that you’ve documented the graduated response.

This means showing evidence that you’ve tried specific interventions over time, measured what happened, tried again with adjustments, and proven those attempts weren’t enough. Without this paper trail showing what you’ve already tried, applications get rejected even when your child clearly needs help.

I know how crushing this feels. I have three neurodiverse children myself, and when I went through this process, I felt completely alone. I even thought I was failing as a parent. I just needed someone in my corner who understood the system.

We can build this paper trail together. I support you by:

Using direct home observation to watch and document how your child actually responds during mealtimes, transitions, sensory situations, and daily routines 🌟
Conducting a parent interview to write down every strategy you’ve already tried, like the bedtime routine you adjusted three times or the reward chart that stopped working after two weeks
Creating a written report that pulls all this evidence together to show exactly why your child needs an assessment now

✨ Early intervention is key. The right support makes all the difference.

DM SEND and I’ll send you information about consultancy services including Assessment of Needs, drafting, and tribunal support so you possess the documentation that transforms rejections into accepted assessments. 🌻

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25/02/2026

Navigating mediation or Tribunal can feel terrifying.

You’re expected to understand legislation, case law, evidence bundles and legal arguments… whilst also parenting a child with additional needs.

Many families feel stuck between two options:
⚖️ Pay solicitor fees that feel completely out of reach
OR
📄 Represent yourself and hope you’ve understood everything correctly

I am the in-between.

I’m not legally qualified — and I’m always transparent about that — but I am highly experienced in SEND law, mediation and Tribunal preparation. I understand what the panel are looking for. I know how to build a clear, evidence-based case. And most importantly, I know how to keep your child at the centre of every argument.

I offer:
• Case building with reference to SEND legislation and case law
• Position statements
• Evidence organisation
• Liaison with the Local Authority
• Representation at mediation and Tribunal

Professional, personalised advocacy — without the overwhelming legal fees.

You don’t have to do this alone. And you don’t have to choose between bankrupting yourself or navigating it blind.

Because this isn’t about winning for the sake of it.
It’s about securing the right provision for your child.

25/02/2026

Sometimes I sit and read through my Google reviews and honestly… I feel so emotional.

When families come to me, they’re usually overwhelmed, exhausted and carrying so much. They’re navigating a system that feels confusing and unfair, all whilst trying to protect their child.

So when they take the time — after everything — to leave a review about their experience with me, it means more than I can properly put into words.

It’s not just a review.
It’s trust.
It’s relief.
It’s a family feeling heard.
It’s a child getting closer to the provision they deserve.

Every single message reminds me why I do this work. It reminds me that the late nights, the paperwork, the meetings, the emotional investment… it all matters.

If I’ve supported your family and you’d like to share your experience, you can leave a review here 🌻

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And to every family who has trusted me — thank you. Truly. Your words mean the world.

25/02/2026

I do this work because I’ve seen what happens when children’s needs are misunderstood.

I’ve seen families exhausted from fighting systems they never expected to have to battle. I’ve seen parents doubting themselves, questioning their instincts, and carrying the weight of being told “it’s fine” when they know deep down it isn’t.

And I’ve seen the children — bright, funny, sensitive, incredible children — labelled as difficult, disruptive or defiant, when actually they are overwhelmed, unsupported and trying their absolute best.

That’s why I do what I do.

Because every child deserves provision that fits.
Because no parent should have to navigate EHCPs, mediation or tribunals alone.
Because the system is complex — but with the right guidance, it becomes manageable.
Because when the right support is in place, children don’t just cope… they thrive.

I am passionate about being the calm in the chaos.
The bridge between families and professionals.
The in-between option — professional, personalised support without the overwhelming legal fees.

This isn’t just paperwork to me.
It’s children’s futures.
It’s family wellbeing.
It’s restoring confidence to parents who have been made to feel unheard.

And I will always fight for what children deserve. 🤍

24/02/2026

“Every child is unique 💫 and when you say your child is “”doing better than other kids in their class,”” you’re actually hurting their application for support. When assessors read that you’re comparing your child to classmates who may also have difficulties, they can’t see what your child actually cannot do.

I have 3 neurodiverse children and I know how normal the daily struggles start to feel. But assessors don’t care if your child has improved since last year. They measure whether your child can do what a typical 7-year-old (or whatever their age) can do without help. During my own applications, I felt completely alone and thought I was a terrible parent for even applying. Without someone showing me what to write, I got it wrong.

You need to write down exactly what your child cannot do. Stop using vague comparisons and give concrete facts instead:
✔ Write “”my child cannot cross any road without me holding their hand”” instead of “”they are getting better at road safety””
✔ Write “”I sit with my child for 45 minutes at every meal to stop them from choking”” instead of “”mealtimes take longer than other children””

✨ Early intervention is key — the right support makes all the difference.

If someone had helped me back then, I would have had the courage to keep going. I want to be that person for you.

Tap the link in bio or visit www.northantssendfamilyguidance.co.uk to book a call so you stop losing points because you’re comparing your child to others. 🌻

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24/02/2026

“It breaks my heart when a behaviour plan works beautifully for three days, then suddenly stops working. 🤍

The strategy wasn’t wrong. What failed was how it was carried out. The sensory room your child was promised became a quick break in a hallway corner. The staff member trained to deliver the plan got moved to another class and replaced with someone who doesn’t know what to do. I have 3 neurodiverse children and I remember thinking I was failing as a parent when this happened. I wasn’t.

Implementation drift is what happens when a sensory diet gets watered down bit by bit. Maybe the weighted blanket sessions were supposed to happen at 10am and 2pm, but staff start doing them “”whenever there’s time.”” Maybe the trampolining gets skipped because it’s raining. Nobody’s tracking it, so vague promises like “”we’ll provide sensory breaks”” get interpreted differently by every adult. If I’d had someone helping me catch these changes early, everything would have been different.

Save this to close the gap:

✔ Document Exact Provision
Don’t accept “”as needed.”” Demand specific times (like “”10:15am daily””), exact equipment (like “”15-minute trampoline session””), and named trained staff to stop the plan from drifting.

✔ Establish Monthly Reports
Require written proof of what was actually delivered so you can see if the plan is happening as written.

✔ Escalate Non-Compliance
Write down every change or missed session for Section 42 complaints or tribunals.

✨ Early intervention is key. When help comes too late, the child and family pay the price.

Visit www.northantssendfamilyguidance.co.uk or DM to book a call. We will repair those monitoring gaps together.

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23/02/2026

“It feels incredibly disheartening to know your child needs support 🤍 yet be turned away before an assessment even begins.

Here’s what’s actually blocking you: It’s not just the waiting list. Most services have secret rules about who they’ll accept, and they reject referrals immediately based on these hidden standards. They won’t tell you upfront that your child needs to show a certain level of struggle in daily activities to qualify. So you’re sending referrals without knowing what they’re actually looking for.

I have three neurodiverse children myself 🌟 and when I was going through these processes it felt incredibly lonely. I truly believed I was a bad parent.

Here’s how to get past this: We figure out exactly which services match your child’s specific situation and learn each service’s acceptance rules. Then we gather evidence and write your referral using the exact words and examples they need to see. We show them your child meets their severity requirements. This gets you through the door because your request now matches what they’re screening for.

✨ Early intervention is key.

I offer consultancy services to help with:
✔ Assessment of Needs (Virtual or In Person)
✔ EHCP Needs Assessment Requests and Draft Critical Reviews
✔ Behaviour Support and Attendance at Meetings
✔ DLA and PIP Application support and Form Filling
✔ General Advice on Child Development and Health Issues
✔ Training for Schools or Early Years Settings
✔ Appeals, Mediation and Tribunal Support
✔ Service Mapping so you stop making referrals that get rejected

DM SEND for information on how I can support you.

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20/02/2026

There has always been a missing option for parents- and that’s what I provide.
Personalised, professional support through mediation, appeals and tribunals.

DM or WhatsApp me to find out how I can help on 07368452590

19/02/2026

Parents are forced to choose between a solicitor or representing themselves.

There has never been a middle option- until now!

I support parents through mediation, appeals and tribunals with personalised, professional guidance.

Message or WhatsApp me on 07368452590 and let me see how I can support you.

18/02/2026

“Most parents think EHCP delays happen because the council has too much work. That’s often not the real reason. It can feel like they’re deliberately exhausting you until you give up.

I have 3 neurodiverse children myself, so I truly know that lonely, isolating feeling of the process. I remember believing I was a bad parent who just needed to do better 🤍

#1 Your request lacks timeline evidence
If you don’t have a dated receipt proving when you posted your request, the council can claim they received it whenever suits them. You need a postmarked receipt or tracked delivery confirmation to lock in the exact date they received your request.

#2 Explanations don’t cite SEND Code exceptions
The law only allows delays for specific reasons listed in paragraph 9.40 of the SEND Code. I know how overwhelming this feels. Yet if they say “”we’re too busy”” or “”we have too many cases”” without referencing one of those specific legal exceptions, you can file a formal complaint.

#3 They mention resources
The B v Isle of Wight court case ruled that lack of money or staff cannot legally justify delaying your child’s EHCP. The law requires them to meet deadlines regardless of their budget or staffing levels.

It is like having someone on your team. If I could have had somebody to help me through it, this would have given me the confidence to continue to fight.

Early intervention is key 🌻

Type EHCP below. I will send you information about booking a consultancy call at www.northantssendfamilyguidance.co.uk. We will draft requests that track statutory timelines, cite the Children and Families Act 2014 Section 36(9), and create automatic accountability.

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16/02/2026

The system shouldn’t reward only the most confident parents. I help parents understand their rights and advocate properly when provision isn’t being delivered.

DM or WhatsApp me on 07368452590 🌻

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