19/11/2025
I’m not about to change my clothes or my hair just because i do energy therapy : Because honestly? So many people who step into the world of spirituality, energy healing, coaching — whatever you want to call it — end up so far up their own arses they forget what the point is.
It’s not about you.
It’s about the people you help.
Full stop.
And it’s so easy to lose yourself in all the jargon, the waffle, the cringe statements, the performance of being “spiritual.” Suddenly you’re wearing tie-dye, chanting, drumming, and being told to “jump into the river of you” to find yourself… and I’m just like, NO - NO WAY
And listen — there is NOTHING wrong with drumming, chanting, tie-dye, any of it. If it’s you, amazing. Go for it.
But why do we feel like we have to transform into a completely different person just because we’re healing or growing?
I don’t want to be a character.
I don’t want to play the spiritual role.
I just want to be me.
I still drink.
I swear (a lot… probably more now, let’s be honest).
My work has changed my life in huge ways — but I’m not about to float off into the clouds and pretend I’m suddenly enlightened.
I want the work I do to stay normal.
Down to earth.
Human.
No coaching bulls**t. Just real conversations, real healing, real people trying to feel better and live their lives without needing a whole new personality.
I hope I always show up as myself — messy, honest, grounded and absolutely not chanting in tie-dye spouting big woo woo words (unless one day I actually want to… and even then I’ll still be swearing!) what this work has given me most is just a permission to be myself. And I’m loving it more every day! **t