13/11/2025
A beautiful service was held on Monday, 10th November, at Kirkcaldy Crematorium to honour a true gentleman and much-loved man, Mr James Wilson Gray.
James’ devoted family gathered at his home, awaiting his arrival before accompanying him on his final journey. He was welcomed at the crematorium by a large and loving congregation of family and friends, a true reflection of how cherished he was as Golden by Lady Antebellum, played in the background. ‘OMD' by Enola Gay played softly in the background, as James was brought into the chapel by the Funeral Directors, with great dignity and respect. Mr Craig Adamson conducted a moving service which was very touching, perfectly capturing the essence James’ life. Craig then invited James’ nephew Colin, to the lectern who spoke more about James’ well lived life. Colin did ever so well and I’m sure James would have been looking down feeling ever so proud. Though the day was filled with sadness, moments of warmth, gentle smiles and moments of laughter emerged as happy memories were shared. We heard stories of his early years, his deep passion for sailing, his time spent with his forever loving family, and most significantly, his enduring love for his wife Angela. There was a moment of reflection as everyone watched a slideshow of treasured memories of James, accompanied by 'Chariots of Fire' by Van Gelis. Colin then gently spoke the words of committal, as family and friends shared their final whispered goodbyes. The service closed with ‘Make Me Smile' by Steve Harly and Cockney Rebel. Donations were collected in aid of R.L.N.I, a charity very close to James’ heart, and an incredible £1250.00 was raised. His floral tributes were stunning, including a gorgeous bouquet with white roses and thistles and beautifully made Anchor with carnations and thistles wreath that looked fantastic, as shown in the photograph.
The family would like to express their heartfelt thanks to all relatives, friends, and colleagues who attended James’ service, and for the kind words, thoughtful messages, cards, and flowers. Your support has brought great comfort during this difficult time.
“Rest in peace, James, Your work on this earth is done. Rest now in the hearts and minds of all who will love you forever.”
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