04/12/2025
It’s taken me some days to fully reflect on the privilege of creating a funeral service for a baby who died soon after birth. It was the most moving experience and one that truly touched my heart. Her parents’ dignity and courage were remarkable and I was grateful to have been able to help guide them through this part of their journey of grief and healing.
As part of the service we included a naming ceremony to mark her individuality and place within the family, in her own right, as a daughter and as a twin sister. We also named her twin sister and it felt such a unifying moment which felt absolutely right.
An intimate service with just the five of us there, it was beautiful, emotional, full of love as well as deep heartache. I’m so grateful to have been trusted with this precious moment.