18/03/2026
I started my filly last year and then gave her the winter off. I have very recently started bringing her back into ridden work.
For me it’s very important to give her some choice right from the start, therefore rather than pushing her into walk I’ve been either waiting for her to make the decision to walk forward whilst allowing with my body, or asking her to step to the side slightly if she gets a little stuck and seeing if she can flow forward into the movement. If she walks forwards and then stops I am allowing her to stand for as long as she needs to (I think sometimes we don’t spend enough time at the beginning on standing still and then wonder why it’s difficult to stop later on).
I’ve been trying to keep the energy flowing back and forth between us so I just don’t make her do. This I think is very hard for us to do as humans as we often feel we should be doing something and perhaps here we can learn from the horses who if allowed spend an awful lot of their time doing nothing.
I’d let her stand for ages and then suddenly even though she looked really calm she yawned and yawned, a definite sign of release.
I’m very much trying to work with her both on the ground and ridden in the same way I would do in bodywork in that when you hit something you don’t push through it but soften to the brace instead. I was mentioning this to my friend and she reminded me of something I told her that Jim Masterson used to say when I was doing my training. He would always say to wait on a spot then when you think you’ve waited long enough wait another twenty seconds more. It’s always amazing how much more you would get in that extra twenty seconds! 😊