25/01/2026
Soulful Sunday - Traitors
Watching the final episodes of Traitors I have been completely hooked by the ability of the traitors to lie their way to victory.
I know it’s a game and recognise the inability of the players to seek support from friends and family on the outside. However, it has been a fascinating insight into our ability to be influenced and swayed by psychological manipulation.
It’s always hard to know if you can trust someone and my take is to meet people with an open mind assessing whether my confidences are kept secure, then down track how reliable, trustworthy and competitive, to the point of sabotage, people prove to be!!
Money, power and status are highly seductive and my dad used to say “everyone has a price.” I thought this was harsh and cynical and have always looked for the good in people and tried to understand the reasons for say, a lack of compassion. That said, understanding the reason doesn’t change unacceptable behaviour and for me once a red line has been crossed that’s it.
You cannot change unacceptable behaviour, but you can choose not to associate with people who perpetrate it.
With love - Vicki ❤️❤️