Serenity For Life

Serenity For Life Serenity For Life. Based near Leyburn, North Yorkshire, UK
In person sessions, or remote via zoom.

Qualified, experienced Therapist offering solutions for Anxieties, Relationships, Personal Growth and Development, Addictions, Sports Performance and more.

Every relationship has seasons — moments of connection, and moments where things feel harder than they should.If you’re:...
07/01/2026

Every relationship has seasons — moments of connection, and moments where things feel harder than they should.

If you’re:
✨ Having the same argument on repeat
✨ Feeling unheard or disconnected
✨ Struggling to trust again
✨ Wanting clarity, confidence or a fresh start

You’re not alone — and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.

At Serenity for Life, I support both couples and individuals to:
💬 Communicate clearly without conflict
🌱 Heal past patterns and rebuild trust
🤝 Strengthen connection and teamwork
❤️ Create calmer, healthier relationships — starting from within

Sometimes the smallest shifts change everything.

Whether you’re building a stronger partnership, navigating a rough patch, or working on yourself — I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

📩 Message me to book a free discovery call
Your next chapter can start today 💙

For many people, it’s not just Christmas Day that feels hard — it’s the weeks leading up to it.The conversations about p...
23/12/2025

For many people, it’s not just Christmas Day that feels hard — it’s the weeks leading up to it.

The conversations about plans.
The questions about who you’ll be with.
The constant reminders that everyone else seems busy, booked, and surrounded.

If you’re facing the run-up to Christmas feeling alone, please know this: you are not weak, broken, or failing.

Loneliness can creep in quietly. It can bring up old memories, grief, comparisons, and that heavy sense of being on the outside while the world feels loud with togetherness.

And then Christmas Day arrives, and the weight can feel even bigger.

It’s okay if you don’t feel festive.
It’s okay if you’re just getting through the days.
It’s okay if your Christmas looks nothing like the picture-perfect version you see everywhere.

Being alone — in the lead-up or on the day itself — does not define your worth or your future.

Be gentle with yourself during this season. Create small moments of comfort where you can. Rest when you need to. You don’t have to force joy or pretend everything is fine.

From Serenity for Life, I’m holding space for you 🤍
You are not alone in feeling this way, and this season will pass.

❄️ Winter Is Here… And It Affects Us More Than We Realise ❄️As the days get shorter and the weather gets colder, many of...
12/12/2025

❄️ Winter Is Here… And It Affects Us More Than We Realise ❄️

As the days get shorter and the weather gets colder, many of us feel our energy dip.
Motivation lowers, moods shift, routines slip, and even simple tasks can start to feel heavier. Winter has a way of slowing us down emotionally, mentally, and physically — and that’s completely normal.

But it doesn’t mean you have to struggle through it alone.

At Serenity for Life, I support you through the challenges winter brings, helping you:

🌟 Boost your mindset when darker days make everything feel harder
🌟 Manage stress when your plate still feels full, even as your energy drops
🌟 Build healthier habits that work with the season, not against it
🌟 Stay motivated and accountable even when it’s tempting to hibernate
🌟 Find balance between rest, work, and daily life
🌟 Reconnect with yourself if you’re feeling a little lost or overwhelmed

Winter is a season of slower rhythms — but it can also be a season of reflection, reset, and quiet growth. With the right support, you can come out of these months feeling stronger, clearer, and more in control.

If you’re feeling the winter slump and want some guidance, encouragement, or structure, I’m here to help.
Let’s make this season a time for rebuilding, not just surviving. 💛

“Therapy isn’t a sign you’re broken —it’s a sign you’re ready to grow.”So many people believe they need to “hit rock bot...
16/11/2025

“Therapy isn’t a sign you’re broken —
it’s a sign you’re ready to grow.”

So many people believe they need to “hit rock bottom” before asking for support…
but the truth is, therapy is an act of courage, not crisis.
It’s choosing healing.
It’s choosing clarity.
It’s choosing you.

If you’ve been thinking about reaching out, this is your gentle reminder:
you’re allowed to take that step. 🌱

🌿 When You’re Offended — It’s Not About Them 🌿Let’s get real for a second 👇When someone says something that offends you,...
26/10/2025

🌿 When You’re Offended — It’s Not About Them 🌿

Let’s get real for a second 👇

When someone says something that offends you, your first thought might be,
“They shouldn’t have said that!” or “That really upset me.”

But here’s the thing…
When we’re offended, it’s not really about them — it’s about us.

That reaction usually comes from something deeper — an old belief, insecurity, or wound that’s been touched. The other person just pressed a button that was already there.

💭 So next time you feel triggered, try asking yourself:
✨ Why did that bother me so much?
✨ What part of me feels unseen, unheard, or challenged?
✨ What can I learn about myself from this?

Taking ownership of how we feel doesn’t excuse someone’s behaviour — but it does give us our power back 💪

Because when you stop letting other people’s opinions control your emotions… that’s when real freedom begins. 💚

🌿 Where Are You Basing Your Thoughts? 🌿Are your thoughts coming from fear, doubt, or the past?Or from possibility, growt...
18/10/2025

🌿 Where Are You Basing Your Thoughts? 🌿

Are your thoughts coming from fear, doubt, or the past?
Or from possibility, growth, and self-belief?

Your thoughts shape how you feel — and how you show up every day.

When you base them in trust and confidence, you open the door to change. 💫

Take a moment today to ask yourself:
💭 Where am I basing my thoughts?
💭 And what would shift if I chose differently?

🌿 Let’s Talk About Anxiety & DepressionAnxiety and depression aren’t just “feeling stressed” or “having a bad day.”They ...
15/10/2025

🌿 Let’s Talk About Anxiety & Depression

Anxiety and depression aren’t just “feeling stressed” or “having a bad day.”
They can quietly take over how we think, feel, and live — often making even small things feel heavy or overwhelming.

You might notice:
• Constant worry or racing thoughts
• Feeling flat, tired, or unmotivated
• Trouble sleeping or concentrating
• Guilt for not being “yourself”

It’s important to remember: you’re not broken — you’re human.
Anxiety and depression are signals, not flaws. They often appear when we’ve carried too much for too long, ignored our needs, or lost connection with what grounds us.

💬 Here’s what can help start the healing process:
• Talk — whether that’s with a coach, friend, or professional.
• Move — gentle exercise or even a short walk helps calm your nervous system.
• Rest — real rest, not distraction.
• Reconnect — to nature, hobbies, and people who make you feel safe.

Change doesn’t happen overnight, but awareness is the first step.
You don’t have to fix everything today — you just need to take one small, kind step forward.

As an NLP Master Practitioner, Psychology Graduate, Sports Psychologist, and Mindset Specialist, I help people understand their thoughts, break unhelpful patterns, and rebuild emotional strength from the inside out.

If this speaks to you, know that you’re not alone — and support is always available. 💚

🦎 Ever Feel Like You’re Playing a Role in Everyone’s Story Except Your Own?You walk into a room… and instantly, you adju...
14/10/2025

🦎 Ever Feel Like You’re Playing a Role in Everyone’s Story Except Your Own?

You walk into a room… and instantly, you adjust.
Your tone softens. Your opinions shrink.
You laugh at things that don’t even feel funny — just to keep the peace.
You read the room like it’s your job.

And suddenly, you’re not you anymore.
You’re whoever they need you to be.

The people-pleaser. The peacekeeper. The dependable one.
The chameleon.

It’s exhausting, isn’t it?
Trying to fit into everyone else’s world while quietly losing your own shape.
You start to wonder —
“If I stop blending in, will anyone still want me around?”

Here’s the truth:
You were never meant to be background colour.
You were meant to stand out.

The real you — the unfiltered, unapologetic, fully alive version — doesn’t need to perform to be accepted.
You just need to give her permission to exist.

Because when you finally stop camouflaging yourself…
That’s when peace begins. 🌿

🌿 Ever feel like life’s ticking along but you’ve somehow lost you along the way?You’re showing up for everyone else — fa...
11/10/2025

🌿 Ever feel like life’s ticking along but you’ve somehow lost you along the way?
You’re showing up for everyone else — family, work, responsibilities — but deep down you feel stuck, anxious, or just… off.
Maybe you’ve been through loss or grief that’s left you unsure how to move forward, or perhaps you’re simply tired of feeling like you’re not yourself anymore.

At Serenity for Life, I help women rebuild confidence, direction, and balance — not through quick fixes, but through gentle, powerful shifts that create lasting results.
Together, we work on mindset, self-belief, and emotional healing — so you can find peace, clarity, and the confidence to move forward again.

💬 “After going through a really difficult loss, coaching helped me find my feet again. I feel calmer, more focused, and ready to start living again.” – Emma P.

If any of this sounds like you — feeling lost, anxious, or just unsure where to start — you’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay there. Sometimes all it takes is one honest conversation to start finding your spark again. 🌸

📩 Send me a message or drop a comment below if you’d like to chat about how coaching could help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

💚 World Mental Health Day 💚As the day comes to an end, take a moment to breathe and reflect.If today felt heavy or rushe...
10/10/2025

💚 World Mental Health Day 💚

As the day comes to an end, take a moment to breathe and reflect.
If today felt heavy or rushed — that’s okay. You showed up, and that matters.

Remember, caring for your mind isn’t about having it all together; it’s about noticing what you need and giving yourself permission to slow down. 🌿

Be kind to yourself — not just today, but every day.
You’re doing better than you think. 💫

🌿 What Really Happens in Your Brain When You Do Something That Scares You (and Feel Amazing After!) 🌿Ever done something...
05/10/2025

🌿 What Really Happens in Your Brain When You Do Something That Scares You (and Feel Amazing After!) 🌿

Ever done something that made you freak out with anxiety — your heart pounding, palms sweating, mind screaming “nope!” — but once it was over, you felt absolutely incredible? ✨

Here’s what’s actually going on behind the scenes 👇

🧠 Step 1: The Fear Response
When you face something that scares you, your brain’s alarm system — the amygdala — fires up.
👉 Adrenaline surges
👉 Cortisol (the stress hormone) rises
👉 Your body goes into fight or flight mode
It’s your brain trying to keep you safe, even if the “threat” is just a challenge, a new opportunity, or doing something out of your comfort zone.

⚡ Step 2: You Do It Anyway
You face the fear. You take the leap.
And when you realise you’re safe — your body shifts gears.

💫 Adrenaline and cortisol drop
💫 Endorphins flood in — natural mood boosters that bring relief and even euphoria
💫 Dopamine (your reward chemical) spikes — reinforcing that “YES, I did it!” feeling

Your brain literally rewards your courage. 🧬

🌸 Step 3: Growth Mode Activated
Each time you do something that scares you and survive (or even enjoy it), you strengthen your:
💪 Confidence
💪 Resilience
💪 Self-belief

You’re teaching your brain: “Fear doesn’t mean stop — it means I’m growing.”

So next time you feel that wave of anxiety before doing something new…
Remember that rush waiting on the other side. That’s not just emotion — it’s chemistry, courage, and confidence combining into one powerful moment. 🌿

🌸 To every woman walking through menopause… you are not alone. 🌸The restless nights. The changes in your body. The emoti...
05/10/2025

🌸 To every woman walking through menopause… you are not alone. 🌸

The restless nights. The changes in your body. The emotions that come from nowhere. It can feel like you’ve lost control — or even lost yourself.

At Serenity for Life, I walk alongside women through this season of change with:
✨ Life Coaching – to help you rediscover purpose, set goals, and create balance in your everyday life.
✨ Psychology-based support – to understand your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours on a deeper level.
✨ NLP techniques – to reframe unhelpful patterns, shift your mindset, and build confidence.
✨ Practical wellbeing tools – calming routines, stress relief strategies, and habits that restore energy.
✨ Compassionate space – a place where you can be heard, supported, and truly understood.

💖 Menopause isn’t the end of your story — it’s a new chapter, and you get to write it your way. Together, we can bring back calm, clarity, and confidence.

💌 If this resonates, I’d love to support you on your journey.

✨ More serenity. More strength. More you. ✨

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Leyburn
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