Merseyside Send Support Network

Merseyside Send Support Network MSSN was founded by Send parents for Send Parents, we want to support and empower parents. Creating a community for our amazing children.

16/04/2026

When something doesn’t make sense… your brain doesn’t just move on—it locks in.

The Need for Truth

For some minds, especially autistic ones, things have to add up.

Not emotionally. Not socially.

Logically.

If something feels off, inconsistent, or unclear, your brain keeps searching—not to argue… but to understand.

Because without clarity, nothing feels settled.

Why You Can’t “Just Ignore It”

People say, “let it go” like it’s a choice.

But it’s not.

That unanswered question, that inconsistency, that missing piece—it keeps looping in your head, getting louder and louder.

Not because you want it to…

But because your brain won’t let incomplete things rest.

When It Becomes Noise

It turns into mental noise you can’t switch off.

A constant scanning, analyzing, replaying—until something finally makes sense.

This isn’t overthinking.

This is your brain trying to create order in a world that feels unclear.

And for you…

Understanding isn’t optional.

It’s peace.

16/04/2026
16/04/2026

Educational psychologists (EP) support the wellbeing and development of young people up to age 25. Working alongside parents, teachers, and other professionals, they identify and address learning or behavioural barriers – ensuring that children facing difficulties get the support they…Read more ...

16/04/2026

New page – alternative education📣

We’ve updated our website with information on children out of school, including a dedicated page on alternative education.

These updates explain:

🔷 When an LA must put in place alternative education for a child of compulsory school age
🔶 Your views are important - LAs should consult with parents before arrangements are made
🔷 Education must be suitable and full-time, and what that means
🔶 What you can do if you are unhappy with proposed arrangements or the education in place

Find out more and what they mean for you on our website: https://www.ipsea.org.uk/pages/category/children-out-of-school and https://www.ipsea.org.uk/alternative-education-for-children-who-cannot-attend-school

We also have a template letter (template letter 22) you can use to request alternative education.

16/04/2026

Kirkby community hero Francis "Franny" Briggs is holding a nonstop 24-hour live-stream event to help raise £20,000 for the Epstein Theatre. The money will go toward installing an access lift for disabled children so they have the chance to perform on stage with their peers. ❤️

Last month, Ruby O’Brien, from Kirkby, held Now Festival at the theatre - an event raising awareness for Children’s Mental Health Week and the performing arts. The teenager previously told the ECHO during a technical rehearsal one of the accessible lifts stopped working, meaning young people who use wheelchairs or have mobility needs were unable to access the stage to perform.

At the time, engineers came out to inspect and repair the lift. However, by the Monday night of the festival, it had stopped working again, leaving Ruby "heartbroken" for the young stars unable to join the stage.

The Epstein team were later informed by email that the parts required to fix the lift were "obsolete" and that installing a completely new lift would cost thousands of pounds.

In a bid to raise £20,000 for a replacement, community heroes Franny - the man behind the annual Kirkby Christmas Crusade - his brother Michael Briggs and Andrew Connor (Olaf from the crusade) have organised a 24-hour 'dartathon' this Friday.

Franny told the ECHO: "Ruby reached out to me and asked if there was anything we could do to help. A couple of weeks ago I was feeling down because I had nothing planned, so when she reached out I thought oomph, I'm back."

Franny and the Kirkby Christmas Crusade team have donated thousands of presents to kids while filling the streets with cheer, Christmas characters and celebrations over the past five years. The annual tradition has gone from strength to strength, and Franny hopes people can come together once again to support just as good of a cause.

The 24-hour dartathon will start at 8pm on Friday, April 17, with the group playing darts in Franny's home. The entire day will be streamed live on Franny's Facebook and TikTok pages with "hilarious and embarrassing" tasks and forfeits happening every hour to keep viewers entertained.

Franny hopes anyone from the darts industry who would be interested in helping with the darthathon gets in touch and helps spread the word.

He added: "I believe when you're doing fundraisers you can't just do sponsored walks, runs and shaving your hair. You [have] got to go outside the box. Get people's attention. I think this is going to be absolutely amazing."

16/04/2026

Our home education sessions start again today! 🐐🐮🐴🦃🐖🐏

16/04/2026
16/04/2026

📢 PUBLIC AWARENESS POST THE TRUTH ABOUT SOCIAL SERVICES & HOW FAMILIES CAN FIGHT BACK

It’s time to put the facts on the table. Not opinions. Not rumours. Facts backed by law, statutory guidance, and repeated findings from the Local Government & Social Care Ombudsman.

Families across the UK are being failed every single day, and most don’t even know their rights. So here it is everything in one place.

⚠️ WHAT SOCIAL SERVICES ARE LEGALLY REQUIRED TO DO

📌 Proportionality (Children Act 1989)
They must use the least intrusive intervention necessary. Escalation without evidence is unlawful.

📌 Accurate & Timely Assessments
Assessments must be completed within 45 working days. Late, inaccurate, or misleading reports breach statutory guidance.

📌 Subject Access Requests (SARs)
Families have the right to all information held about them Section 47 enquiries, case notes, emails, assessments, recordings.
They must respond within one month.

📌 Consistency of Social Worker
Children’s Services must provide a stable point of contact. Long absences, no cover, and constant changes breach good practice standards.

📌 Respectful, Evidence‑Based Challenge
Professionals must challenge respectfully. Implying harm without evidence is not “reasonable challenge” it’s a breach of professional standards.

📌 Proper Complaint Handling
Complaints must be investigated correctly through the statutory Stage 1 → Stage 2 → Stage 3 process.

❗ FACTS ABOUT SYSTEMIC FAILURES

These are not isolated incidents they are patterns documented nationwide:

• SARs ignored or delayed for months
• Reports submitted late or containing factual inaccuracies
• Voice recordings and evidence from families ignored
• Complaints re‑categorised or dismissed without investigation
• Social workers missing for weeks with no cover
• Parents blamed for failures caused by the local authority
• Ombudsman findings repeatedly showing councils at fault

Families are being judged on incomplete, incorrect, or unlawful processes and it’s happening far too often.

⚖️ WHAT FAMILIES CAN DO WHEN SOCIAL SERVICES FAIL

Here are the legally recognised routes families can take:

1️⃣ Submit a Formal Complaint (Stage 1)

Use this when:

• Reports are inaccurate
• SARs are ignored
• Meetings are misrepresented
• Professionals behave inappropriately

2️⃣ Request a Stage 2 Escalation

If Stage 1 is mishandled, ignored, or re‑categorised, you have the right to escalate.

3️⃣ Re‑Submit Your SAR in Writing

State clearly that the statutory timeframe has been exceeded.
They must comply.

4️⃣ Request a New Social Worker

You can do this when:

• There is no consistency
• The relationship has broken down
• The worker is absent long‑term
• Reports contain repeated inaccuracies

5️⃣ Ask for Corrections to Reports

You have the right to challenge inaccuracies and request amendments.

6️⃣ Escalate to the Local Government & Social Care Ombudsman

If the council fails to investigate properly, the Ombudsman can:

• Order apologies
• Order compensation
• Order corrections
• Issue findings of maladministration

7️⃣ Seek Legal Advice

Families may have grounds for:

• Negligence claims
• Human Rights Act claims (Article 8 – family life)
• Failure to protect
• Emotional harm caused by poor practice

Specialist firms include:

• Irwin Mitchell
• Slater Gordon
• Rook Irwin Sweeney

🔥 THE BOTTOM LINE

Families are not powerless.
Children’s Services are not above the law.
And the truth is simple:

When social services fail to follow the law, families have the right and the power to challenge them.

This system is funded by the public, entrusted with children’s lives, and legally bound to act with fairness, accuracy, and transparency. When it fails, accountability is not optional it’s required.

Families deserve truth. Children deserve better.

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