19/01/2026
Tension = Ease
Tension often builds quietly before you realise it is there.
Then when it finally gets hold of you, it can come with a bang.
Headaches, neck pain, back pain,you feel like you have been exercising, or done two rounds with Mike Tyson.
Most of the time, it is not sudden at all, It is the body carrying on while you keep going.
Holding, pushing, coping, without stopping, when we ignore the signs, it moves to another part of the body until you feel wiped out.
That is when the emotional side kicks in, the anger comes, then the tears.
Everyone experiences this differently, some feel it in their emotions, some in their energy, and some in their thoughts.
This is not weakness, It is the body asking to be listened to, when we get to know ourselves, and what's really happening.
We can start to regulate it, when the body softens, the mind follows, and things feel lighter again.