10/03/2025
🌙🥱 Is being nap trapped leaving you feeling touched out? 🥱🌙
This has been one of my most popular posts to date, so I thought I would spruce up the post and make it more informative and useful.
You might have mastered getting your baby to sleep in a cot at night, but daytime sleep is a different matter. Your baby will likely only take contact naps. At best you might be able to get your baby to sleep in a sling or stroller.
This is biologically normal for a baby to want to be as close to you as possible, and if you can, I'd lean into it. Get lots of snacks, drinks and the remote control in hand because it really won't last forever. If it makes it easier, a stretchy wrap style sling really helps your baby to feel that sense of closeness, while keeping your hands free.
BUT if you're done with contact naps - there are some ways to ease into the transition.
The first nap of the day is the easiest to work on - it's when there's still a decent amount of residual sleep pressure left over from nighttime. It's also generally the shortest wake window of the day, because babies get tired pretty quickly after waking up for the morning. It's also a great nap to choose because if it all goes wrong, you've still got the entirety of the day to get back on track.
So try that nap in the cot, it might only be a short nap at first, but be consistent with it, and you should see results. Then, when that nap is established consistently and is over 45 minutes for a number of days, move to the next nap and so on.
This process could take weeks, so do not feel disheartened - have patience. It’s a huge change for your baby. Remember also that babies often have very short naps until they are around 7 months of age when wake windows are consistently over 2 hours in length. So don’t be alarmed if this process takes months.
My baby sleep course, The Essential Gentle Baby Sleep Course, contains a comprehensive guide to naps. Or for the younger ones, my free 0-3 month sleep survival guide is linked in my bio.
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