Therapy with Kemi

Therapy with Kemi I am Kemi Omijeh, a MBACP registered Child and Adolescent Therapist working therapeutically with chi

As we approach the third week of Black History Month in the UK, if your child’s school hasn’t done anything to acknowled...
13/10/2025

As we approach the third week of Black History Month in the UK, if your child’s school hasn’t done anything to acknowledge it, safe to say they have no plans to do anything. Their silence speaks volumes. It reveals their intentions and their values. It tells pupils and their families that Black stories and contributions are optional, not essential.

What has your child’s school done for Black History Month?

One week into Black History Month, I’m curious, how has your organisation acknowledged it? Whilst I’m firmly of the beli...
06/10/2025

One week into Black History Month, I’m curious, how has your organisation acknowledged it? Whilst I’m firmly of the belief that Black History is history, full stop. I do pay attention to how organisations engage with this month.

Black History Month in the UK was initiated by Ghanaian activist Akyaaba Addai-Sebo in 1987 to challenge racism and celebrate the rich, diverse contributions of Black people in Britain. I love this year’s theme, “Standing Firm in Power and Pride” So, throughout October, I’ll be sharing personal stories that reflect how I’ve stood in my own power and pride.

What comes up for you in hearing my story?

There was a recent article in the Standard & Mirror with the headline “Children as young as four being sent home for rac...
29/08/2025

There was a recent article in the Standard & Mirror with the headline “Children as young as four being sent home for racist behaviours at school”. This is not a surprising headline. If it’s surprising to you, examine why. Sending children home for racist behaviour is not the answer. Educating the parents & children is. Addressing systemic and individual racism in schools is also key.

The stats highlight that there were 15,191 reported suspensions for racist behaviour last year (around 80 every school day) compared to 11,619 the year before. These are only the reported cases, not every child discloses, not every school records.

Racism in the education sector is rife and should be treated as an urgent safeguarding concern. Is your child’s school actively anti racist? Do you know what is being done in your children’s school to tackle racism when it occurs? We are actively colluding with and perpetuating racism when we do nothing about children’s exposure to racism either via school systems or individuals.

P.S: You may have spotted that there are in fact 11 statements not 10. I was on a roll and could have easily written 10 more statements! What would you add?

This is a conversation that is very active in my home, and in my close circle. It’s a conversation that shows up regular...
26/07/2025

This is a conversation that is very active in my home, and in my close circle. It’s a conversation that shows up regularly in the work I do holding reflective spaces and supervision with organisations and individuals actively committed to anti racism. Just last week I was moved to tears holding a group reflective space where the pain was palpable and I felt helpless. The last couple of weeks has felt particularly heavy for me as a result. I initially put it down to end of school year exhaustion, the emotional rollercoaster of my child finishing primary school and life just life-ing. But the more I reflect on it, the more I feel that the heaviness is charged! The more I am naming my heaviness the more I am seeing that I am not alone, others are feeling this same. So being really honest, I wrote these words for me, I needed this reminder, that I am not alone in what I am feeling. That to feel is to be human. If you needed this reminder too, I hope it helps. Going to exhibition at the was also much needed. It gave me hope at a time when I feel despair.

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