14/02/2026
Around Valentine’s Day, the focus is often on romantic love.
But research consistently shows that women’s wellbeing is deeply connected to the quality of their relationships, including the one they have with themselves.
Studies show that women report higher emotional labour in relationships and are more likely to carry the mental load at home. Research from the American Sociological Review found that women in heterosexual relationships often spend significantly more time on household coordination and emotional management, even when both partners work full time.
At the same time, self-compassion research (Dr. Kristin Neff, University of Texas) shows that higher self-compassion in women is linked to lower anxiety, lower depression, and greater resilience.
Love isn’t just about partnership.
It’s about boundaries, balance, and wellbeing.