Ashley Velvet Frost

Ashley Velvet Frost Founder of Emotional Release Academy (ERA). Worldwide Trainings in Emotional Release.

Emotional Release is not what you think 👇🏼Here’s the Number 1 misunderstanding that keeps you from releasing your emotio...
10/02/2026

Emotional Release is not what you think 👇🏼

Here’s the Number 1 misunderstanding that keeps you from releasing your emotions:

🩸A lot of people ask me “What does releasing an emotion even mean?!”

I hear you. Here’s the answer:

First things first:
You don’t release an emotion from your body.

➡️Releasing an emotion means freeing it from the cage of resistance it’s been trapped in.

It’s about building a healthy relationship with your emotions, instead of trying to fix or get rid of them.

👇🏼Cause here’s the thing👇🏼

If you try to fix an emotion, you relate to it as if it was broken.

If you try to get rid of an emotion, you relate to it as if it was DANGEROUS. ❗️

Releasing an emotion means to break the spell of flawedness that was put onto you by a society that has never learned to feel.

👉🏼 An emotion is released once its message has been heard.

Because just like a child that hasn’t been seen or heard in an emotion, this dynamic might be restating in your adulthood.

Instead of witnessing the child/emotion, you want it to be different.

🚩To fix it.🚩

❌You make it wrong for being there.

But what does a child need?

✅Just like a child, your emotions need loving permission.

This doesn’t mean mindlessly allowing every harmful outburst of rage.

👉🏼 It’s a matter of relating:

It’s the knowing that your emotions are fundamentally okay, without any explanation, excuse.

They are valid because they exist.
Period.

With love,
Ashley

09/02/2026

Seven movements to practise claiming space in your own body.

Breath locks.
Rhythmic patterns.
Repetitive motion that bypasses the polite, over-controlled mind.

When the body repeats a movement, it starts to open the door to what’s been stored underneath: anger, impulses, memories, the parts of you that were told to be quiet, small, or “nice.”

Healthy anger isn’t just a mindset.
It’s a sensation.
A pulse.
A pressure that wants to move through your muscles and breath.

Before you set boundaries out there, you practise taking up space in here.

Because boundaries aren’t just words you say.

They’re a felt sense in the body that says: this is my space, and I’m allowed to keep it.

With love
Ashley

You’re asking the wrong questions…It’s not about “how do I heal” it’s “who in me says that?”Look.Wanting to heal is a be...
08/02/2026

You’re asking the wrong questions…

It’s not about “how do I heal” it’s “who in me says that?”

Look.

Wanting to heal is a beautiful thing - but if it is coming from a part of you that is stressed, anxious and in resistance to your pain, the pain will likely get worse.

AND.

The part of you that says “we need to heal” actually needs to heal too - it carries a deep pain that it tries to compensate within your “healing journey”.

Investigate why you want to heal, where does this impulse come from?

Is there a sadness in that wish? Anger? Guilt?

Then, feel the emotional undercurrent of your desire to heal too- and see what happens.

This is how you get closer to your truth.

This Thursday the 12th, we’re hosting a free EMOTIONAL RELEASE workshop that helps you speak your truth even if your voice shakes and your body trembles.

Comment “WORKSHOP” to join.

06/02/2026

Not because men are “bad at emotions” but because many were never allowed to have them in the first place.

For generations, boys have been taught that tenderness is weakness, fear is failure, grief is embarrassing, and need is something to outgrow.

What is permitted is control, stoicism, humour, productivity…
and eventually anger.

Anger becomes the only emotion that doesn’t threaten belonging or masculinity.

So when a man explodes, shuts down, or carries a constant low-grade irritation, it’s rarely because he lacks depth.
It’s because depth was never made safe.

The nervous system learns early: feeling leads to rejection, shame, or punishment.

Anger, at least, keeps you upright.
This doesn’t excuse harm.
But it does explain the pattern.

Many men are walking around with grief they never got to cry, fear they never got to name, and longing they were taught to suppress. 🥺

Rage is often the last honest signal left - the body saying something here was never held.

On this page I speak a lot about women’s anger - because it’s been silenced, pathologised, and spiritualised away.

But men deserve nuance too.
Emotional repression hurts everyone.

🙅🏼‍♀️Different rules, same wound.

Healing for men isn’t about becoming “softer” or “less angry”.

It’s about making space for the emotions that were never allowed to arrive.
Anger isn’t the end of the story.
It’s the doorway.

Comment WORKSHOP to join our free Emotional Release Workshop Feb 12th

With love,
Ashley

NARCISSISTS HATE THIS TRICK 👇🏼Haha, no seriously;What if your anger is love in disguise?🔥Anger burns away the layers of ...
05/02/2026

NARCISSISTS HATE THIS TRICK 👇🏼

Haha, no seriously;

What if your anger is love in disguise?

🔥Anger burns away the layers of survival you’ve built around your truth.

Hiding your truth can be a trauma response⤵️

It comes from the belief that

🗣️„If I say what I feel, think or need, I will be hurt.“

And with each cold shoulder, you mask what you stand for with adaptive niceness.

👉🏼Acting nice is shielding your truth.

🔥When you cut off a part in service to survival, anger asserts your soul back into alignment.

To maintain harmony, empaths sacrifice a part of their inner reality.

➡️Healing means reclaiming your reality that’s been cut off in service to others.

On February 12th, my Team and I will teach you a message that helps you access and release the hidden power of your anger & the intelligence of your emotions.

Comment WORKSHOP to join.

With love, Ashley

04/02/2026

If you’re new to emotional or somatic release, start here.

It’s not about screaming, shaking, or reliving trauma.

It’s about listening to your body and letting it complete what it never had space to finish.

Sometimes that looks like breath activating energy.
Sometimes it’s sound or voice moving stuck emotion.
Sometimes it’s tears. Sometimes anger.

And sometimes… it’s resting, because your nervous system finally feels safe enough to soften.

Emotions don’t get “stuck” because you’re broken.
They get stuck because your system learned to survive.

Somatic release is simply giving the body permission to move, express, or settle -
in the right order,
at the right pace.

This work is not about pushing.
It’s about regulation,
choice, and
safety first.

Your body already knows how to heal.
We just stop interrupting it.

On Feb 12th we have a free workshop for Emotional Release with a guided release with me:

Comment: WORKSHOP

below to get the link!

With love,
Ashley

Most people try to heal but get this wrong:There’s a crucial aspect to healing that often gets misunderstood.❌ Healing i...
03/02/2026

Most people try to heal but get this wrong:

There’s a crucial aspect to healing that often gets misunderstood.

❌ Healing is not tied to a certain state.
❌ Healing is not forever being happy, enlightened.
❌ Healing is not freeing you from challenges.

Healing means this:

🫴🏼 Becoming alive.

And I don’t mean alive metaphorically - I mean it literally, it is about feeling alive.

And feeling alive is not tied to happiness.

âś…You can feel vital in your sadness.
âś…You can feel alive in your grief.
âś…You can feel awake in your anger.

It is about being present - and developing the ability to be present.

🔥Even with your intensities.

At the Emotional Release Academy, we teach you to feel & express your feelings to heal your emotional wounds.

Comment WORKSHOP to join our free emotional release workshop where we teach you all about trauma, emotions and the body.

With love,
Ashley

30/01/2026

Before we know how to protect ourselves,
we know how to protect what is vulnerable.

A child in danger.
A puppy being hurt.
Something innocent enough to bypass doubt and awaken instinct.

We don’t ask if it deserves care.
The body moves.
The voice arrives.

Our inner child is no different.
She was always worthy of protection.
She just learned that silence was safer.

So we begin there.

We stand in front of her.
We say the no she could not say.
We place the boundary that once felt dangerous.
We remove her from spaces that were neglectful or unsafe.

We speak what she needed to hear:
I see you.
I’ve got you.
You don’t have to endure this anymore.

This is re-parenting.
This is how secure attachment is built.
Not through insight alone,
but through protection that can be felt.

Advocacy comes first.
Then anger is allowed.
And from there, self-worth grows.

Comment “Inner Child” for a free class including guided mediation.

With love,
Ashley

Hey everyone!We’re hosting another Human Work Workshop at  , Ibiza - 14 & 15 March (10am–6pm).A powerful two-day journey...
29/01/2026

Hey everyone!

We’re hosting another Human Work Workshop at , Ibiza - 14 & 15 March (10am–6pm).

A powerful two-day journey into somatic trauma healing, emotional release, nervous system work, and the power of real human connection.

If you’ve been feeling stuck or disconnected…
If something feels ready to shift…
Or you’re craving depth, meaning, and genuine connection…
- this weekend is for you.

Facilitated by .villiers_ , , and .

Locally sourced lunch included both days. (Non-residential)

✨ 20% Early Bird until 6 Feb
Code: TIERRA20

Info + sign-up through the link in bio.

DM us if you have questions!

A healthy nervous system is NOT always calm.👉🏼Let me explain...A healthy nervous system is defined by its ability to flu...
28/01/2026

A healthy nervous system is NOT always calm.

👉🏼Let me explain...

A healthy nervous system is defined by its ability to fluidly move through various states of activation and rest.

🔥Anger is not a problem to solve.
🔥Anger is the solution.

When it comes to expressing healthy anger, empathy often gets in the way:

🗣️Empaths cannot stand the tension anger creates because it breaches their value of harmony.

But here’s the thing:

❌Calmness isn’t the goal of healing.
✅It’s authenticity.

Most people view anger as a failure on their healing journey.

because they think that calmness = healing.

❌ It’s not:

If anger is excluded from your expression, you trade authenticity for harmony.

Anger doesn’t belong on a meditation cushion.
It thrives in embodied expression.

In being witnessed and accepted by those around you.

👉🏼No longer shamed for allowing ALL your emotions to have a RIGHTFUL place in your life.

With love, Ashley

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