28/03/2023
🪢How to end a toxic or an off season relationship🪢
" you have opened my eyes, now i know I shouldn't be in this relationship, but we are not in bad terms how do i go about it, how do i say its over without hurting my spouse ??"
🍄Acknowledge that it may not always be a peaceful ending and prepare your heart for any backlash. Sometimes, depending on the person you're with it may be messy. They may be totally unwilling to separate from you, if its a narcissist or conn they will try to corner you and take advantage of you. Put on your armor, be ready.
🍄If its an abuser, someone who is used to taking advantage of you or beating you up, look for a place to move to quitely and secretly, move your things and disappear one day. You don't need to explain anything to such a person. Just leave a note to tell them you have left for good. Seek someone who can support you emotionally and stay in touch with them, especially a counselor or a psychologist or priest of good moral standing, who will help you in the healing process.
🍄If its an off season relationship, wrong time or just wrong foundation, find a way, or a job to be able to stand on your own and then explain to the person that you're moving on and starting a new life, you set them free. Not all will be willing to take this statement, but you must be firm and start moving on.
🍄Don't look back, don't seek closure. Especially women, seeking closure has got more people stuck in toxic relationships than anything else. Seeking closure has added more children to an already dying relationship than any other reason. You don't need to shut a burning house, you need to run for your life!Leave and seek closure with professionals not the abuser.
🍄Disconnect and unplug yourself from common friends,everything that you shared, form new habits and joints. Do away with such pictures, or stay away from them until you're fully healed.
🍄Remember, many times the toxic relationship maybe the one that has been holding back your blessings, you may immediately start seeing good people come to you, what you have been dreaming for gravitate towards you, don't delay, if you feel healed, go ahead and recieve your blessings with joy.
