29/09/2025
Fathers are often called “helpers” in early parenthood but research shows they’re far more important than that.
🧠 When dads experience high stress during pregnancy, mums are more likely to experience anxiety or depression too (Paulson & Bazemore, JAMA, 2010).
🤱 Women with supportive partners are twice as likely to breastfeed successfully and for longer (Wolfberg et al., Birth, 2004).
🩺 Mothers report less anxiety, lower pain and faster recovery when their partners are actively involved in care (Plantin et al., Journal of Men’s Health & Gender, 2011).
And yet…
⏳ Only around 1 in 5 UK fathers have access to meaningful parental leave.
⏳ NHS maternity services are still mainly designed for mums, often overlooking partners altogether.
👉 Maybe modern motherhood would feel healthier, happier and more supported if we stopped treating dads as “extra” and started recognising them as essential.