19/12/2025
“Our son, Gabriel, was diagnosed with very severe aplastic anaemia in October 2021, just a week after starting Year 4. He went from being a happy, cheeky, smiley little boy to one who could barely lift his head. We were told that his condition was so severe that a bone marrow transplant was his only chance of survival.
Christmas 2021 was spent in hospital. We found out on the 22nd of December that his first donor couldn’t go ahead, and my world fell apart. But just before New Year, a young woman self‑isolated over Christmas and donated her stem cells. She saved Gabriel’s life – and mine too. She gave us the best Christmas present anyone could ever give – she saved our little boy.
Gabriel spent both Christmas and his 9th birthday in hospital isolation with just me for company. He saw his dad and siblings through a tiny square window. Those months were unbearably hard.
We exchanged anonymised letters with his donor for two years, and now we’re in touch directly. She’s in her twenties, Italian but living in Germany. That was interesting, because I'm Greek and my husband's English, and I worried that we might not find a suitable match, so it's interesting that she's Mediterranean as well. Words just cannot describe how I feel about this person who was so selfless. One day, we’d love to meet her.”
Christmas can also mean hospital stays, isolation and waiting for a match. Thank you to Maria for sharing their family’s story and showing how life changing a donor’s gift can be 💚