08/09/2022
THE STORIES WE TELL OURSELVES:
I saw this photo and it made me smile! But there is wisdom right here -
Sometimes we like to say 'I can't do this' or 'I can't do that', we hold views about ourselves as being this way or that and these views seems to be very real. These thoughts in our mind seem so solid and accurate. The solidity we create by telling ourselves these stories over and over, about how we should be, how we shouldn't be, how things should be and how things shouldn't be, can be very damaging and prevent us from making positive changes in our lives. We come up with all sorts of reasons why we can't do something, why we can't change a certain detrimental habit, transform a hampering mindset, or overcome fear, or laziness. We waste so much time telling ourselves stories that re-affirming our inability to make positive changes - WE are in fact our biggest obstacles!
The stories we tell ourselves are just thoughts. Nothing more. We don't have to simply believe everything we think. Try to see your stories as clouds in the sky - they come and go - nothing about them is solid and permanent - they are simply clouds in our sky-like mind. They cannot harm us. The next time you notice a story arise in the mind, don't believe it, don't trust it - it's just a fantastical creation of your own self-grasping mind that will keep you locked into your worry, fears and anxieties. You can be free of these nonsense stories at any time, you can choose to walk away, turn your mind away from them - it's your choice