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Mindful Gay Sex & Intimacy Coaching

One of the UK's most unique s*x and intimacy coaches for gay, bi and curious men.

Practical, hands-on coaching for men who want to work body to body with another man

04/12/2025

It’s not enough just to say you want something…

If you truly want your needs to be met there’s a crucial second step you need to take

You need to ask for it.

Find out more and learn the skills in one-to-one coaching sessions with me – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

03/12/2025

Talking and theory will only take you so far.

What I offer takes you to the next level - being able to touch, experience and feel in real time body to body with another man.

This is a unique space for learning and practicing skills for authentic and confident physical intimacy.

Take your first step towards more connected pleasure in your life - to book a free Clarity Call visit: https://tidycal.com/michael-dresser/clarity-call

02/12/2025

Being a great lov/er is not about techniques or tricks for getting someone off.

It’s about:

- Putting aside what you ‘think’ your partner will like in order to really listen to their body when it tells you what feels good.

- Being able to listen to your own body when it tells you what feels good.

Communicating well is key to both.

I can support you to learn and practice skills for all these things - and help you become a better lov/er

Join my 5-month Confidence + Connection personalised coaching programme – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/confidence+connection

01/12/2025

In 2025, a historic funding crisis is threatening to unravel decades of progress. HIV prevention services are severely disrupted.

Community-led services, vital to reaching marginalized populations, are being deprioritised while the rise in punitive laws criminalizing same-s*x relationships, gender identity, and drug use is amplifying the crisis, making HIV services inaccessible.

This is not a time to be complacent.

Visibility is everything.

(Statistics: World Health Organisation)

30/11/2025

Consent is about so much more than permission…

It’s about creating clear agreements.

And in order to do that you need to be able to learn how to choose:

- what you want

- what you don’t want

- what you’re willing for

- what you’re not willing for

The is an essential part of my toolkit for helping guys learn how to create more choice - and more fulfilment - in their lives.

Find out more at my website – check my bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

29/11/2025

Connection is all about being able to be real.

And being real is about much more than the ‘good times’ or the ‘best performance’

It’s also about the times when you feel uncertain, or shy, or curious, or vulnerable.

Connection happens when you’re able to share that with the person you’re with.

If you want to learn skills for becoming more comfortable with your own desires and vulnerability I’m here to help….

Personal Retreats with me are an amazing way to dive in and learn how to create connection – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/personal-retreat

28/11/2025

Like most guys I’ve been on a journey with p-rn.

I’ve had times when it’s taken over, and times when I’ve cut it out completely.

Now I’ve made my peace with it, and it’s a comfortable part of my solo physical expression when I want it to be.

The key to this was learning how stay in my body, how to feel sensation, and how to create pleasure there for myself without needing to rely on external stimulation.

I can help support you build skills for doing this in your own body too – visit https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/pleasure-in-yourself

27/11/2025

Many guys who work with me have said they tried talk-based s-x or intimacy coaching first - and while it was helpful there came a point when they just needed to stop talking, and start doing…

Pleasure, and physical intimacy are things we feel in our bodies - so if you want to get better at them you need somewhere safe and supported to practice!

That’s why coaching with me is so unique.

I offer both immersive coaching retreats, and shorter regular coaching programmes.

Find out more about what’s possible – visit https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

26/11/2025

A lot of people think that great s-x is all about techniques – knowing fancy strokes, or positions.

But In my experience one of the MOST important skills you can have in the bedroom is the skill of noticing - being able to notice.

Find out why…

Get more of my self pleasure tips and practices – visit https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/pleasure-in-yourself

25/11/2025

Tired of feeling like your experiences in the bedroom are a bit superficial or transactional?

My one-off Connect + Play sessions are different.

No rush. No scripts. Just two men meeting with openness, curiosity, and desire.

Find out how you can connect + play with me – details in bio – or visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/connect+play

24/11/2025

This is one for all the people-pleasers…

As a recovering people-pleaser myself I get it -

Sometimes expressing your own desires or needs can feel really vulnerable, so it’s easier just to focus on someone else’s.

If you’ve ever felt this way, and want to change, I can help you build skills for getting better at asking for what you want in the bedroom.

Find out more about coaching with me – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

23/11/2025

We’ve all had way too many experiences of going along with touch we don’t want, or feeling pressure or expectation to touch in a certain way.

Working with me starts to rewire those patterns.

In order to be able to learn and grow you need to feel safe enough.

And the more choice you have the safer you’ll feel.

That’s why sessions with me are designed to support you engaging with touch exactly how you want - including the choice not to touch, or to stop or pause touch at any point.

Find out more about what’s involved – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

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