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One of the UK's most unique s*x and intimacy coaches for gay, bi and curious men.

Practical, hands-on coaching for men who want to work body to body with another man

01/02/2026

I think this insightful quote really gets to the heart of why so many of my clients come to me…

Most of us don’t actually need more help with being s-xual.

What we’ve never been given proper skills for is moving beyond the gamification of s-xual desire promoted by the apps.

We’ve never been taught how to create a bridge between physical contact and physical intimacy.

If that’s something you struggle with I can help…

In person coaching with me offers you a space of care and permission where you can learn and practice more fulfilling, connected ways of creating intimacy when you’re body to body with another man.

Join my personalised Confidence + Connection coaching programme – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/confidence+connection

31/01/2026

Sometimes it’s hard to find words to communicate clearly. Sometimes we say things we don’t really mean.

For all sorts of reasons: a desire to please, to maintain connection, to protect ourselves…

But the body doesn’t lie.

Whether it’s the shiver of pleasure from a hand caressing your skin…

Or the knot in your stomach when you’re enduring something you don’t want…

If you’re feeling it, it’s likely your partner will feel it too - even if no words are spoken.

The trick is to become more aware of what your body is REALLY saying so that you can follow what feels truly authentic for you.

I can help you learn skills for that. Learn more at my website – check my bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

29/01/2026

Bored of hook ups which feels formulaic?

Tired of s-x which just feel transactional?

Often when we think we want s-x what we really want is emotional intimacy.

To be touched more than just physically…

To be admired. To laugh with someone. To feel safe.

To feel like someone really cares.

Connect + Play sessions with me can include s-nsual exploration, tenderness, care and consent.

Ready to explore intimacy beyond the swipe?

Find out how you can connect + play with me – visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/connect+play

28/01/2026

Some of the most beautiful, connected and intimate physical encounters I’ve had have been completely c-m free!

So many guys get hung up on desperately trying to reach that final climax…

But when you let go, soften, relax, and stop chasing it

All sorts of other pleasures become possible.

Connection becomes possible, instead of performance.

And if you stop aiming for a single specific outcome, then you’ll never feel inadequate, or like you failed, if you don’t reach it.

It’s all about shifting your perspective!

If you want my help with that, get in touch. Check out my website – details in my bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

27/01/2026

So many of us defer, or delay pleasure, or try to make our pleasure about someone else.

What can you do today to change that?

How about doing something purely for your own enjoyment. Without any other purpose?

Are you up for that challenge?

Take a moment now to ask yourself what would feel really GREAT right now - and then go do it!!

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26/01/2026

True generosity doesn’t mean giving, and giving, and giving…

It’s about noticing that you have limits…

Recognising when you need to stop…

And being able to to say ‘no’.

When you can do that, then you become able to give more deeply and full-heartedly.

Coaching with me can support you to learn and practice skills for creating better boundaries, and becoming more generous.

Find out more about what’s involved – check my bio – or visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

25/01/2026

Imagine a physical intimacy practice lab designed just for you - where you can learn in a safe, playful and shame free environment.

Through a structured journey over 1.5 days you’ll gain tools and insights to help you create more authentic, nourishing connections - based on what’s right for YOU.

This is a guided, hands on practice space with choice and safety at the heart of it. Meet your true self body to body with another man, without judgement, pressure or performance.

Find out more about Personal Retreats with me – info in bio – or visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/personal-retreat

24/01/2026

I get it… relationships can be complicated.

We all make assumptions, tell ourselves stories, run scripts, get stuck in patterns.

When was the last time you really checked in with your partner?

What would it be like to ASK your partner what they want - and then really HEAR what they tell you.

What would it be like if they did that for you?

I can support you to learn and practice skills for getting better at knowing what you want, what you don’t want, what you’d like to be different - and then communicating that clearly.

Learn more at my website – check my bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

23/01/2026

So many guys approach m/sturbation as if it’s a chore to get out of the way.

There’s often little care involved. Just speed, secrecy, and almost no real attention paid to the body parts involved.

No wonder it’s not very enjoyable!

So here’s a thought…

What if you treated your body less like a machine to ‘jerk’ or ‘whack', and more like a human being who deserves to be loved?

Check out my Pleasure In Yourself self pleasure tips, practices, and coaching options – visit https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/pleasure-in-yourself

22/01/2026

Communication is key to successful relationships (especially long term).

And that includes being able to communicate well when things are disappointing, or are just not working the way you want them to.

It can be tempting to try and put your own desires aside, or ignore your own limits for the ‘good’ of the relationship.

But this often makes the problems worse.

Because you can’t nurture a relationship if your own needs are not being met, or your boundaries are continually being ignored.

I’ve actually found it’s much more helpful to be properly honest about what you really want, and what you’re not up for.

When both of you can put those things on the table clearly then you both know what’s needed, and what’s not possible.

And when you know the lay of the land, it gets much easier to try and navigate it together!

I work with couples, supporting them to learn and practice skills to get better at noticing and communicating desires and limits, especially during physical intimacy.

Find out more about coaching with me – check my bio – or visit: https://www.mindfulgays*x.coach/coaching

21/01/2026

One of the most unique aspects of the sessions I offer is the opportunity to step into a space of full body permission.

Most men have so few spaces where physical intimacy can be both brave and vulnerable, and where choice and safety are an integral part of what happens, without shame or judgement.

If this sounds good to you check out my offerings:

- confidence + connection coaching programmes

- personal retreats

- connect + play experiences

Learn more at my website – visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

20/01/2026

If you’re tired of feeling like you have to perform in the bedroom, here’s a tip for you…

And if you want a space to learn and practice more about how to feel and experience more pleasure when you’re body to body with another man - get in touch!

Find out more about coaching options with me at my website – link in bio – or visit https://www.gayintimacycoach.com

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