Mystic Sisters

06/01/2026

Hi lovely,

Every family has that one toxic person.
The one watching your moves like a hawk, lurking on socials, smiling while taking notes of the way you dress, live, breathe.

Some are smooth, quiet manipulators who clap for you while whispering shade and sharpening a knife. Others are drills, loud, harsh, relentless.

It’s the snide comments. The constant comparing. The subtle digs disguised as “advice.” Lately, maybe it’s the festive season, but so many of my clients have been dealing with this exact energy where family members who push buttons, stir drama, and leave everyone tense.

A mother‑in‑law, who regrets aging, her situation, marriage issues. A brother who feels he should be the more successful one. A sister‑in‑law who feels you are living a version of her life, the perfect one. A husband who feels you are succeeding and climbing ladders socially or career wise. And sometimes? It’s a cousin. Rooting for you out loud while holding a knife behind their back.

People tied to you by blood, marriage, or history, people you’re told to tolerate because “family is family.” But is family adding value to your mental and emotional wellbeing when the first and sometimes o ly thing they bring is a growing toxicity.

Here’s the tea my love, moving away doesn’t always mean leaving, it’s emotional distance. Energetic detachment. Strategic silence.

Stop explaining yourself. They feed on reactions. Silence = power. Set boundaries without guilt. Love doesn’t require self‑betrayal. Change access, not your heart. You can love them from afar. Stop fixing them. You’re not rehab for emotional immaturity. Trust your body. If your energy tenses, your soul already knows.

Some people cheer for you with crossed fingers.
Others with knives behind their backs.

Protect your peace.
Sometimes moving away looks like leaving.
Sometimes it looks like staying… but refusing to dance in their chaos.

Love,
M

05/01/2026

Congratulations Wendy du Randt-Norman! You have won a 30 minutes session for you and one for a friend!!!! Please dm me to book your session.

Love,
M xx

04/01/2026

fans. My 2026 advice. POST Newspaper.

As our celestial bodies influence the coming year, take this opportunity to reflect and align your actions with the energies of your zodiac sign, says Mellissa Mallaya-Pandaya.

01/01/2026

Hey gorgeous,

We place unnecessary deadlines on ourselves. Let’s focus on eliminating the stress and planning a way forward. Creating the future that we want.

Love,
M xx

31/12/2025

Last live of 2025. Q&A. Share this to stand a chance of winning a 30 min session. 3rd giveaway.

31/12/2025

Hey gorgeous,

Yesterday, a client I’ve known for decades finally broke. It was not because he is weak or because he failed, but because he is human.

He is a phenomenal father. A provider. An all round good man. And for years, when relationship issues surfaced, he chose silence. He chose to focus on work. He chose to cope. We discussed his marriage many times but he chose to evade this topic.

Until his 16-year-old son looked at him and said:
“Dad, you should get a divorce.”

Let that land.

Children don’t say things like that lightly. When a child names the truth, it’s usually because the environment has become unsafe , emotionally, energetically, or psychologically. Chronic rage, tension, walking on eggshells, none of that goes unnoticed by young hearts.

During his reading, the Seven of Swords appeared. This card is often misunderstood. It’s not just about deception , it’s about avoided truths, quiet betrayals of the self, and the heavy cost of pretending everything is fine when it isn’t.

The hardest truth he faced wasn’t about his marriage. It was about why he stayed.

Not love. Not hope. But fear of people’s opinions “What will they say?” “How will this look?”

And that one thing , living for external approval was slowly tearing his family apart.

2026 is the year we leave other people’s opinions behind.

It’s the closing of a long karmic cycle where silence was mistaken for strength.

PIt’s the end of enduring what harms us just to keep the peace.

Numerologically, 2026 carries Year 1 energy.
A new beginning. A reset. A brave step forward.

Starting over doesn’t mean you failed.
It means you finally listened to your heart.

Sometimes healing begins the moment we stop protecting the story and start protecting the people living inside it, especially the children.

If this resonates, take it as your sign. LTruth may be uncomfortable, but it is always liberating.

Love M
Xx.

Hard truths don’t break families. Silence does

31/12/2025

Will be going live and answering your questions later. Make sure your notifications are on.

30/12/2025

Congratulations!

Please dm me to book your session. I have 3 more giveaway happening.
How’s your last few days of 2025?

Love
M xx

29/12/2025

Hey gorgeous,

Can we talk about boundaries, properly? Not the Pinterest-quote kind. The real-life, “why am I so tired when I haven’t actually done anything wrong?” kind.

I’ts not the work that’s draining you. It’s the people.

The friend who trauma-dumps like it’s a free subscription service. The colleague who says “just looping you in” and somehow leaves you cleaning up their mess. The in-laws with helpful suggestions you never asked for. The relationship where you’re expected to be understanding, flexible, patient… and somehow also psychic.

It is mentally Exhausting.

I will say this gently, but firmly: Stop setting boundaries that keep you small. Set boundaries that require you to step into your power, even if it makes things a little awkward at first.

Boundaries aren’t about being cold or cutting people off dramatically. They are about no longer over-explaining, over-giving, or over-functioning for grown adults.

You don’t owe access to people just because they’ve “always been like that.” You don’t owe emotional labour to colleagues who benefit from your competence but not your wellbeing.
And you definitely don’t owe silence just to keep the peace, especially when peace only exists because you’re swallowing your truth.

As you rise, some people will suddenly miss the version of you that was easier to manage.

That’s not your cue to shrink. That’s your cue to evolve.

This season of your life isn’t about being liked by everyone.

If you’ve been feeling irritated, snappy, or quietly resentful lately , congratulations. That’s not you losing patience. That’s your intuition finally asking to be heard. As the new year approaches, ask yourself: Who actually deserves access to my time, energy, and emotional bandwidth?

Love
M ###

28/12/2025

Hello gorgeous,

So sorry for the delay. Will be choosing the lucky ones later. Ps. Look out for another giveaway.

Love M xx

22/12/2025

When you see someone enjoying a decadent meal , maybe something rich. Or posting two koeksisters because one simply wasn’t enough.
Or sharing travel pics that make you sigh a little… pause.

You don’t know their story.

Maybe they haven’t been back to SA in three years. Maybe that koeksister is the first one they’ve tasted since they left home. Maybe the travel, the food, the memories are doing what therapy, rest and time couldn’t do on their own.

We are so quick to shame , not always loudly, but with subtle comments, side eye captions, and “just saying” innuendos.

Food can be medicine. Travel can be medicine.
Memories can stitch parts of the soul back together.

Let people soak up the vibes. Let them eat the koeksisters. Let them share it online without guilt.

You never know what someone has survived , emotionally or financially to get to that moment of joy.

Let us all heal in our own ways, with more compassion and less judgement.

We do not need to feel guilty for living a little. This has been a kak year for so many.