20/12/2025
Not every time we say âI hate Christmasâ we really mean Christmas itself.
Sometimes itâs the pressure, the expectations, the loneliness, or the memory of something that once hurt. â¤ď¸âđŠš
The Grinch shows this perfectly: he didnât hate the festivities as such â he hated what they brought up inside him.
Unprocessed pain, feeling left out, the fear of not belonging.
And thatâs something many people experience over the holidays: what looks like anger or withdrawal is often just a heart trying to protect itself from something that still hurts.
Thereâs nothing wrong about Christmas feeling heavier than expected. The emotions that surface during the festive season donât reflect weakness â they reflect personal history, old wounds, and needs that deserve space and compassion. â¨
Protecting yourself doesnât make you bad: it means recognising your limits and taking care of them.
And if youâre someone who doesnât feel this discomfort, or struggles to understand it, thatâs absolutely fine too. We donât all experience Christmas in the same way, and there is no ârightâ or âwrongâ way to feel.
But here is what you can do: observe without judging, make room for others, and accept the feelings of the people around you â even when their experience doesnât match your own.
Because the real spirit of Christmas isnât about forcing joy â itâs about creating space where everyone can feel whatever they feel, with respect, understanding and kindness.
And you â how do you experience Christmas? đđ
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