23/11/2025
When two people enter a relationship, they don’t come in as blank slates — they bring their attachment patterns, their learned survival strategies, and the spoken/unspoken dynamics of the families they grew up in.
What we often call ‘chemistry’ is really the meeting of two nervous systems shaped by very different histories.
Relationships are not just about connection; they are about the ongoing work of communicating clearly, repairing when triggers surface, and creating a safe space where both people can unlearn old patterns and build healthier ones together.
The serie “Nobody wants this” gives some great examples of how an healthy relationship feels and looks like.
