07/10/2025
That was insane!
Declared a recent 14 year old client after going into trance in a hypnotherapy session..
Rosanna (not her real name) came to me because she was afraid of going on the Tube in London.
You must understand that this was a big deal for her. All her friends would go on the Central Line to Westfield shopping centre on a Saturday afternoon. And she couldn’t join them.
Teenagers hate to be different, for something to be wrong with them, so phobias are often their guilty secret. They won’t admit to being scared for fear of being laughed at. At that age the main aim is to be accepted and fit in.
So excuses are made, the issue buried and patterns of avoidance formed. And then the anxiety of missing out starts to build, and erodes confidence in other parts of life.
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When parents introduce the idea of therapy, there is often resistance:
- there’s nothing wrong with me
- I’m working on myself
- I’ll sort it out
The problem is that traditional talking therapy does not always work for teenagers. Maybe some do like to talk about their feelings, but many do not want to be poking around in the problem.
Solution focused Hypnotherapy has a different approach. It focuses on how things would be without the problem, and of course has the magical experience of trance.
I love working with teenagers, but like everyone else they have to want to come themselves. Not because their parents want them to.
Sometimes it can take a couple of sessions, to get to that point. And that’s OK.
And for me personally, the reward is great. To know a young person has been set free from an irrational fear holding them back is magical, mysterious and yes, a bit insane.
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