20/02/2026
Your dating history is not bad luck. It is memory.
Long before you understood romance, your nervous system was learning the rules of connection, what keeps you close, what risks rejection, what feels familiar enough to trust. Those early lessons do not disappear with age. They quietly organise your adult relationships.
What feels like chemistry is often recognition. What feels like anxiety is often old protection. And what feels like “this always happens to me” is usually a pattern waiting to be understood.
Follow for evidence-based insights on attachment, attraction, and retraining the nervous system for healthier relationships.