07/11/2023
ITS NOT ME….ITS YOU
I realised I had to do things my way…that was right for me. My set-up, my life and not what was expected of me as a coach, trainer or as a a man.
I removed the noise - the health tracking data apps, the HRV, readiness and sleep scores, the daily weigh-ins because these were the things that were holding me back. Stuck in perfectionism, intellectualisation and ultimately procrastinating on moving forwards.
I was keeping myself stuck - doubts about past failures, lack of trust in the simplicity, weighed down by the unneeded complexity of what I thought it should do and driven by an ego that needed to be seen in a certain way as a coach.
i made the choice to connect to the simpler bigger behaviours that moved me towards where I wanted to be. I realised things didn’t need to be that complicated right now.
I realised that the details matter - but not ALL of the details matter. I just had to decide which ones moved the needle and ones that didn’t.
This realisation took me from an overly emotional head space to a present space.
I realised if I managed my emotions, I managed my body. The process became the result. That was the game.
This allowed me to actually step into a more authentic coach and person which ultimately led to new opportunities. I was able to empathise with my clients more, had compassion for the struggles some people face and ultimately this process benefitted me in every area. My business improved. My relationships improved. I improved.
I made the choice to change. I tuned out the noise and listened to myself
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