12/02/2026
Your emotions are not problems. They are alignment indicators.
Most of us were taught to treat emotion as something to manage, control, or suppress. Calm down. Be positive. Don’t overreact. But emotion is not a malfunction in the system. It is feedback.
Every emotion tells you something about your internal state. When you feel joy or relief, there is alignment between what you are thinking, what you believe, and what you are experiencing. When you feel frustration, anxiety, or anger, there is tension somewhere in that alignment.
That tension is not a failure. It is information.
Anxiety often signals internal contradiction — wanting one thing while believing another is safer. Anger often signals that a boundary has been crossed or that something important to you is not being honoured. Sadness can signal release. Relief signals movement back toward coherence.
The problem is not the emotion itself. The problem is losing the ability to read it accurately.
When you suppress emotion, you disconnect from guidance. When you dramatise it, you distort the signal. When you stabilise your system, you can interpret it clearly.
Healing is not about eliminating uncomfortable feelings. It is about strengthening your capacity to stay present with them long enough to understand what they are showing you.
The question isn’t, “How do I stop feeling this?”
The real question is, “What is this feeling revealing?”
Love Seka