Cherry Tree Therapy Centre

21/03/2026

Why can’t I switch off my mind?

You might be tired.
You might be getting through your day, doing what needs to be done.

And yet your mind doesn’t stop.

Replaying conversations.
Thinking ahead.
Questioning decisions.
Going over things again and again.

Even when things are relatively calm on the outside, your thoughts stay busy.

For many people, this isn’t panic or crisis.

It’s quieter than that.

A constant background noise of thinking.
A sense of always being “on”.
Finding it hard to fully relax, even when you have the time.

It can feel frustrating — especially if you’ve always been someone who copes well.

You might wonder:
“Why can’t I just switch off?”

If this feels familiar, you’re not alone.

We’ve written a blog exploring why this happens and what can help you feel a bit more space from your thoughts.

👉 Read more here:

You might be tired. You might be getting through your day, doing what needs to be done, keeping things going. And yet your mind doesn’t stop. It keeps replaying conversations. Thinking ahead. Questioning decisions. Running through possibilities.

15/02/2026

If Valentine’s Day felt heavier than you expected, you’re not alone.

For many partners navigating betrayal trauma, certain dates can act like emotional landmines. Anniversaries, Valentine’s Day, birthdays, even the date of disclosure itself can trigger intrusive thoughts, comparison, sadness or anger, sometimes when you thought you were coping better.

This doesn’t mean you’re going backwards.

The nervous system remembers what the mind is trying to move past.

We’ve written a new blog exploring why certain dates feel so activating after betrayal, and practical ways to manage those moments with steadiness rather than self-criticism.

If this week felt tender, it might resonate.

And if you’re looking for support, our online Partners Support Group and individual counselling services are here.

If you’re experiencing betrayal trauma, you may have noticed something unsettling. You can be coping reasonably well, functioning, thinking clearly, even feeling moments of steadiness, and then a particular date arrives. Valentine’s Day. An anniversary. The day you discovered the betrayal. A bir...

09/02/2026

Can therapy still help when money is tight?

We hear this question a lot, often quietly, sometimes with a sense of guilt or uncertainty attached to it.

Many people delay getting support not because they don’t need it, but because they’re worried about cost, commitment, or whether therapy is even realistic for them right now.

We’ve written a new blog that looks honestly at this, including how online therapy and lower-cost options can make support more accessible, without lowering standards or pressure to commit.

If money has been the thing holding you back, this might be a helpful place to start.

You don’t have to decide anything today. Sometimes just understanding your options is enough.

For many people, the decision to look for counselling doesn’t come easily. It often follows months, sometimes years, of managing on your own, telling yourself you should cope, or waiting for things to settle down.

08/02/2026

How nutrition can support brain health and reduce dementia risk. Kate Taylor explores evidence-based dietary and lifestyle approaches.

21/12/2025

If you’re the partner of someone struggling with s*x or p**n addiction and you feel constantly on edge, confused, or doubting yourself, it’s not because you’re failing at communication.

After betrayal and repeated dishonesty, boundaries aren’t about control or ultimatums.

They’re about protecting your emotional safety, dignity, and sense of reality while you work out what’s truly safe for you.

You’re not “too much” for needing them.

Read More: https://www.cherrytreetherapycentre.co.uk/setting-boundaries-after-s*xual-betrayal/

07/09/2025

Feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, or burnout? You're not alone, and taking steps toward emotional wellbeing can make all the difference. Whether it's seeking counselling, practicing self-care, or simply opening up about workplace stress, every small effort counts. 💬 How do you manage your mental health during tough times? Share your tips or experiences below! Let's support each other on this journey. 💙👇

Discover the signs of burnout and how counselling can help you recover, restore balance, and build healthier coping strategies.

05/08/2025

A gentle look at hidden causes of low mood and what might help.You wake up, go through the motions, and everything looks “fine” on the outside.But inside? You feel flat. Drained. Detached.You might even ask yourself: “What’s wrong with me?”If this sounds familiar, you're not alone.Feeling low for “no reason” is more common than you might think, and it often signals that something deeper needs attention.What’s the Short Answer?Feeling low even when life seems fine can be a sign of emotional burnout, suppressed feelings, or high-functioning depression.It’s your nervous system’s way of telling you something’s not quite right, even if your circumstances seem okay.What Does ‘Feeling Low’ Actually Mean?Low mood isn’t always obvious.It can show up as:A lack of motivation
Feeling emotionally flat
Brain fog or irritability
Disconnection from others
That vague “meh” feeling you can’t shakeYou might be ticking off your to-do list and still feel off.

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21/07/2025

Ready to shift your perspective? 🌟 Discover how cultivating a positive mindset can transform your life. From practising gratitude to challenging negative thoughts, our latest blog post covers the key strategies for embracing positivity. Check out the link in our bio ⬆️

What’s one positive change you’re working on? ✨

In a world where negativity can often dominate the headlines and our personal challenges, cultivating a positive mindset is more important than ever. The power of positive thinking isn’t just about adopting a cheerful attitude; it’s a transformative approach that can significantly impact your me...

07/07/2025

Feeling anxious? 🌿 Discover the power of exercise in reducing anxiety and explore the best workouts to calm your mind and body in our latest blog post. Check out the link in our bio ⬆️

🧘‍♀️ What’s your go-to workout for stress relief?

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Anxiety is a common mental health issue that affects millions of people worldwide. It can be overwhelming, affecting every aspect of life, from work and relationships to overall well-being. While various treatments are available, including therapy and medication, one of the most effective yet often....

23/06/2025

Long-distance doesn’t have to mean long-lasting challenges. 💌 Discover our top tips for making a long-distance relationship work in our latest blog post. Check out the link in our bio ⬆️

How do you keep the spark alive when you're miles apart?

In today’s interconnected world, long-distance relationships (LDRs) are becoming increasingly common. Whether due to work, studies, or personal circumstances, many couples find themselves separated by miles or even continents. While being apart from your partner can be challenging, it’s entirely...

09/06/2025

Struggling with stress or burnout? You don’t have to face it alone. 🤝 See our blog post and discover how social support can make all the difference in managing your well-being. Check out the link in our bio ⬆️

Who’s your go-to support system?

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In today's fast-paced world, stress and burnout have become increasingly common, affecting people across various professions and walks of life. Whether it’s due to work pressures, personal challenges, or a combination of both, the feeling of being overwhelmed can quickly lead to physical, emotiona...

26/05/2025

Finding joy in creativity and hobbies can be a powerful tool in managing depression. 🎨✨ Dive into our latest blog post to explore how small activities can make a big difference in your mental health journey. Check out the link in our bio ⬆️

Which hobbies bring you peace?
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Depression is a complex and often overwhelming mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. It can manifest in various ways, from persistent sadness and lack of energy to difficulty concentrating and a loss of interest in activities once enjoyed. While professional treatment, i...