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A different focus, combined with common sense is so often all that’s needed to lead to empowerment.

Training workshops and 1-1 sessions helping women embody their fierce feminine and men their true masculine, leading to exciting, fulfilling and committed relationships. At The Relationship Revolution, we believe everyone has a far better chance of finding and maintaining a successful, loving, fulfilling relationship, once surrounding myths are exposed for what they are – fairy tales! It’s these elements which form the basis of our workshops and successful results. As women, it’s hard to avoid being influenced by your culture, upbringing and conditioning, all of which can lead to unrealistic expectations and inevitable disappointment in relationships. By recognising, zoning-in on and being unafraid of your powerful assertiveness – which many women and men deny themselves for fear of appearing unfeminine or not macho – you can bring about exponential changes in your life.

31/12/2025

Let's GOOOOOO👏! What was the highlight of your year?

Mine was definitely the launch of my book - The Fierce Feminine Mindset.

Taking a moment to soak it up before I start thinking about plans for next year (*hint - this book was part 1 of a trilogy 😅).

Stay safe out there today.

Wishing you a year ahead filled with the love you so richly deserve.

Thank you for all your support and for the privilege of being part of your love story.

29/12/2025

We need to talk about conditioning!

There are 5 core types of conditioning that impact your relationship patterns.

The one that comes to mind in this context is “Fairy Tale Programming”.

You know…the blockbuster movies that subconsciously convince you the unpredictability of the quintessential “bad boy” is normal - even desirable - in relationships?

Fact is; the happy ending you see in movies where he finally comes to his senses and they live happily ever after, is not real life!

To learn about the 4 other types of conditioning that may be keeping you stuck in unhealthy relationships - and how to break free from them for good - grab your copy of The Fierce Feminine Mindset.

Pre-orders open soon. Make sure you're on the list - link in bio.

26/12/2025

Two things…

1 - Being aware of red flags is great,

2 - That only serves you if you value yourself enough to walk away when you spot them!

My new book - The Fierce Feminine Mindset - can help you with both if you're ready to get off the relationship rollercoaster once and for all.

Pre-orders open soon. Make sure you're on the list - link in bio.

24/12/2025

No matter where, how, or with whom you're spending the holidays this year,

Remember that social media is not real life! 😜

Behind every photo of a happy family, or couple, is a story you know nothing about.

So go easy on yourself and take a minute to appreciate every battle you've won this year.

Merry Christmas.

22/12/2025

Wanna know why it’s so hard for you to implement boundaries -

And actually follow through?

It stems from self-worth…but I’m guessing you knew that.

It takes courage to push through the discomfort, and valuing yourself enough to know it’s the right choice is the only way you’ll ever break the cycle.

As a psychotherapist and relationship expert with more than 17yrs experience, I know what actually works to help you embody self-worth beyond the cliched quotes and affirmations,

And I’ve compiled it all for you in my new book - The Fierce Feminine Mindset.

Pre-orders open soon. Make sure you're on the list - link in bio.

19/12/2025

Sure, I suppose you could ask AI for relationship advice,

But it'll never make up for the more than 17 years experience I've gained listening intently as thousands of women, and couples, have shared intimate details of their real-life relationship challenges with me in my therapy practice.

Real-world case studies are something I was determined to include in this book because - along with practical exercises you can take immediate action on - they give meaningful context, validation and a proven path forward on your journey to the love you deserve.

If you're serious about getting off the relationship rollercoaster, this is the resource for you!

Pre-orders open soon. Make sure you're on the list - link in bio.

17/12/2025

Start how you mean to continue!

If you find yourself in a cycle of needing to chase him, convince him, or prove yourself to him -

You’re setting yourself up to fail & enabling a pattern of control you’ll undoubtedly come to regret later.

I’ve witnessed this pattern play out time & again in my practice over nearly two decades - don’t let this be you!

Learn how to truly value yourself and attract someone that’ll meet you half way.

Real case studies. Practical tools. Experiential wisdom.
That’s what’s on offer in my new book - The Fierce Feminine Mindset.

Pre-orders open soon. Make sure you're on the list - link in bio.

15/12/2025

If Jess can do it, so can you! So grateful for this work.

12/12/2025

For 17+ years women have been coming to my practice asking:

“What’s wrong with me?”

And it breaks my heart - truly!

These women are real-life superwomen — capable, intelligent, successful — yet when it comes to love, they feel stuck, exhausted, and discouraged.

Some are ghosting the dating game entirely.

Others are stuck in lukewarm relationships trying to force love to work like a DIY project.

There is a clear pattern:
What women have been taught about relationships no longer works.

That’s why I’ve condensed my experience into a book - The Fierce Feminine Mindset - so you have a clear path out of the endless cycle of disappointment, disillusionment and despair.

Pre-orders open soon. Make sure you're on the list - link in bio.

10/12/2025

You think it’s chemistry when your heart races when he’s finally texted you back…

That’s not chemistry - it’s your central nervous system reacting to unpredictability!

When you heal, you’ll stop mistaking emotional rollercoasters for passion and learn how to build relationships that are safe, not only exciting.

The Fierce Feminine Mindset is not more vague inspiration that leaves you feeling hopeful for a while but clueless on how to take action;

It’s a collection of practical, proven and potent tools backed by 17+ years experience as a psychotherapist & relationship expert.

Pre-orders open soon. Make sure you're on the list - link in bio.

08/12/2025

If you relate to what Jemima had been struggling with and are curious about the content we worked through together,

You’ll want to pick up my new book - The Fierce Feminine Mindset.

In it, I address the core challenges for women having difficulty finding and maintaining healthy relationships, that my decades of experience as a psychotherapist and relationship expert have brought to light, including:
Healing past relationship trauma & identifying patterns,
Self-discovery & confidence building,
Emotional resilience & communication skills,
Dating strategies & choosing partners from clarity instead of old conditioning.
It’s an invaluable resource for women who are done with settling & with vague inspiration, and want practical tools they can implement on the journey to the love they deserve.

Pre-orders open soon. Make sure you're on the list - link in bio.

05/12/2025

If love feels confusing, draining, or disappointing no matter what you try — you’re not imagining it.

You deserve a relationship that meets you with clarity, safety, and genuine effort — not a cycle you keep trying to fix alone.

I wrote The Fierce Feminine Mindset to help you:
Uncover how family, culture and society have conditioned you;
Set boundaries through the Fierce (assertive) mindset, so you feel safe enough to…
Reclaim your Feminine (sensuality, intuition) and embody a confident, magnetic presence in dating & love, and
End your repeating relationship patterns for good!

Tap the link in my bio to get your copy.

Address

Eton Avenue
London

Website

http://www.dimitriraftcounselling.com/

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