The Inner Journey Clinic on Harley Street

11/08/2017

Be kind to you ❤🙏🏼

04/07/2017

RELATIONAL GROWTH

Sometimes we fight for an idea of how a relationship 'should' be rather than face what's really here... Part of the human condition I guess... but at some point the truth kicks and kicks until it can be ignored no more... Broadly speaking, there's 3 ways to look at these situations:

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1) YOU ATTEMPT TO MAKE THEM CHANGE...
Good luck with that, and just wishing and wishing is a recipe for limbo. Dialogue can inspire your beloved to stretch and discover for themselves what's true for them... But sadly that's a rare thing and always must come from THEIR true inner desire or is unsustainable and perpetuates the cycle.

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2) YOU LOOK AT YOURSELF...
Look at your dissatisfactions, your issues, your judgements and how they are mirrors for your internal world... That, in my experience, is a great use of the conflict brought on by the growth impulse... but at some point it reaches its limits and demands a relational collaboration... And if the mode of "I must fix myself to make the relationship work" continues... Well, at this point it actually becomes counter-productive and will, most likely, cause you additional suffering...

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3) YOU ALIGN FULLY WITH WHAT YOU WANT...
You get super clear on what YOU want to experience, let go of everything you've created in the relationship and open to where life is pointing you. The challenge is trusting that, even though it might get rough in the adjustment, what you want is also seeking you and life will find a way... with or without them...

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NPA is amazing for bringing you back to you and letting go of outcome, especially relationally. Visit www.JoelYoungNPA.com/sessions if you would like some support with this very challenging situation

Joel x

27/06/2017

YOU MATTER

When I was a kid I would say something in a group and notice that the conversation would continue without the slightest acknowledgement that I was there or had said anything.

I was the invisible boy.

I was quick to feel rejection and tell myself that 'they' just weren't hearing me. It was a subtle form of blame... A quiet defence mechanism and an abdication of personal power which quickly seduced me into near total shut down.

"Clearly", I soothed myself "my expression is invisible... My words don't matter... *I* don't matter!" Low self esteem was confirmed, and lack of confidence justified.

The path out of that hole and into the clear knowing that I matter was a long one for me.

One of the things I've realised is that back then my fear and lack of confidence sent my energy running a mile in those situations, so I actually wasn't there and my words were empty.

It's taken me a lot of deep inner inquiry, healing and facing of those fears to shift my sense of who and what I am.

And it took me a few heart thumping walks down the terror tunnel and into conversation to crack the dam and confirm the shift through direct experience.

Now my energy is truly with me in those kind of situations; I'm present, confident and my words are truly alive.

While it took me a lot of time and effort, it seems I've created a clear pathway that others can follow; much faster, and much easier.

Helping people come to the deep realisation that they matter has become a passion and an area of expertise for me... You see? I can even blow my own trumpet 😉

If you feel you don't matter (Perhaps putting yourself last much of the time or shutting yourself down and staying out of life..?)... Maybe it's time to turn the tide and start living like you matter... Because somewhere inside you know you do!

So let me help you:
http://www.joelyoungnpa.com/sessions

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02/06/2017

A reminder to love yourself

HOW DO YOU LOVE?
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How do you love your beloved?
How do you love your family?
How do you love your pets?
How do you love your precious things? ❓❓❓❓❓
Are there things you do for them that you don't do for yourself?
Are there lengths you go to that you don't go to for yourself?
Are there sacrifices you make, is there extra effort you make, is there extra time you spend to give them the best you can?
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What would happen if you gave that to yourself?
What would happen if you loved yourself that way?
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What stops you?
Face that fear...
What would it give you if you did love yourself that way?
Embrace that experience...
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Walk through the fire of your habitual lack of self care...
Stop sipping from the bottle of slow-poison that is: inaction around things for YOU...
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Fill up your cup with acts of self- love.
Ask for support.
Be you.
Do it for you.
And if you can't do it for you, do it for others, for they will benefit enormously from you doing it.
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Hold yourself in an embrace of active love... And watch your world transform!
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www.JoelYoungNPA.com/sessions
If you need support x

19/05/2017

SELF PARENTING

In my many years of self-healing and working with countless clients, I noticed that most painful behaviours were born from ‘child’ consciousness’ or young identities looking for something… Love, protection, acknowledgement, understanding etc etc…

The child energy seeks parental energy… And yet we tend to “personalise” parental energy, and therefore limit it’s origin, to our parents and carers.

So if the flow of parental energy through these fine people is shaped in a way that didn’t connect with our various child energies, an unmet need is generated.

The good news is that parental energy is non-personal and can joyfully flow through you to your child energies in exquisitely precise ways.

Through this notion I was liberated from my personal history, so I invite you to parent yourself in all the ways you wish you had been parented.

If you have the courage to do so, then Love will run amok in your heart, where need once did.

Also reach out for support. I have a LOT of experience with this and I've seen dramatic healing when it is applied. You can set up a free call with me via my website here:
http://www.JoelYoungNPA.com/sessions

Joel x

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30/04/2017

Lots of good insights here...

23/04/2017

I'm excited to be doing the first UK NPA event in quite a while on May 20th. Check out the video and click the link to find out more details and I'd love to see you there if you feel called.
Ealybird offer ends on May 10th...
And I'd really appreciate your help getting it out there with a share

14/07/2016

Amazing new cancer treatment!

07/03/2016

Yip 100%

29/02/2016

What are you attracting today?

08/01/2016

Endings are an inevitable part of life

Grief, more than any other emotion will have it’s way with you, and create havoc if suppressed…

Feelings are crazy, weird, wonderful and, oftentimes, challenging things…

But I often thank God that I can feel them and know that I’m alive.

Grief and endings of all kinds tend to heighten everything that’s been kept inside. Those emotions can come crashing to the surface.

On the upside, that makes it a time that brings the opportunity to uncover the tangle of yourself and your hidden shadow...

And sometimes we need a helping hand to go through the process...

http://www.npacentral.com/the-gift-of-grief/

Endings are an inevitable part of life Grief, more than any other emotion will have it’s way with you, and create havoc if suppressed… Feelings are crazy, weird, wonderful and, oftentim…

22/11/2015

While this article focuses on the benefit of investing in a 'coach', it absolutely holds true for the emotional work we do at the clinic :)
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/summer-engman/why-i-happily-pay-my-life-coach-the-big-bucks_b_8112828.html

I was trained early on to understand that the purpose of a large investment is never to buy a coach's investment in me (because that is already a given). It is to get me deeply, truly invested in myself.