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I'm here to help you be the best version of your self, to feel fulfilled and happy. My mission is to create a love-rich and blame-free world.

23/02/2026

Anxious attachment isn’t about being “too much.”
It’s about learning early that closeness wasn’t guaranteed.
What once helped you stay connected can still be running the system today
even when the danger is no longer there.
Understanding attachment isn’t about blame.
It’s about compassion, safety, and new possibilities in connection.

20/02/2026

Closeness doesn’t mean losing yourself.

Real intimacy happens when you arrive in connection already resourced, rested, and whole.

Before asking “How am I with you?”
it helps to ask “How am I with myself?”
Two full selves create deeper connection, not self-sacrifice.

18/02/2026

Ever notice yourself reacting in ways you already know don’t help but still doing them anyway?

That’s not a lack of awareness.
It’s your nervous system moving through a familiar protection loop.

Trigger → thought → emotion → reaction.

Change begins when we interrupt the cycle, not judge it.

16/02/2026

Closeness naturally grows as relationships deepen.
But when the “we” slowly replaces the “I,” intimacy can start to feel heavy instead of nourishing.

Healthy connection isn’t about losing yourself in love.
It’s about staying emotionally close while remaining whole.

13/02/2026

Desire doesn’t always arrive first.
For many women, it emerges after connection, safety, and closeness.
That’s not a problem.
That’s how desire works.

11/02/2026

Love doesn’t fade.
It reorganises around safety, stress, and connection.
Most conflict isn’t failure, it’s nervous systems protecting closeness.

09/02/2026

Love doesn’t disappear when a relationship becomes a family.
It reorganises.

What once felt intense becomes steady.
What once needed focus becomes shared responsibility.
Not less love different love.

From a systemic perspective, this shift isn’t a problem to fix.
It’s a natural evolution of the relationship as the system expands.

The question isn’t “Where did the love go?”
It’s “What is love being asked to become now?”

Love grows quieter and often deeper when it’s allowed to evolve.

06/02/2026

Familiar doesn’t always mean healthy.
It often just means your system knows how to survive there.
We repeat emotional patterns not because we choose them —
but because they reduce uncertainty and once helped us stay connected.
Awareness is what interrupts familiarity.
And with the right support, something new becomes possible.

04/02/2026

When the same emotional moments repeat across relationships, it’s rarely coincidence. What once helped you stay connected can quietly become exhausting. Noticing the role you keep stepping into is where change begins.

02/02/2026

Get this fun, interactive workbook designed to help families grow stronger, braver, and more connected.

It encourages reflection, conversation, and shared learning in a way that feels approachable, not overwhelming.

A great resource for building deeper understanding and connection at home.

https://daryahaitoglou.com/how-to-raise-confident-kids/

31/01/2026

Want cooperation? Try appreciation, not correction 🤍
Satir-style shift:
✨ Validate first
✨ Share impact
Connection changes behaviour
👉 Follow for relationship psychology

30/01/2026

Growth is quiet… until it isn’t. 🌱
If it feels slow, it doesn’t mean it isn’t working.
Save this for the days you’re doubting your progress.

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