26/01/2026
Morning friends
I have a lady with me who is telling me she was addicted to the old musicals, mainly the films but she went to the theatre when possible. I know Cassablanca was her favourite.
Shes talking to me about a very recent passing in the family – not hers but a gentleman who was a good age and had been tired and ready to go for a long while (thats how shes putting it). Shes telling me he 'got across to her side fine and hes already recovering well'.
I know this gentleman looked drawn in the face, he did lose a lot of weight and he also lost interest in doing anything as it was too much effort. I do feel he was in his 90s, possibly late 90s, so he'd had a good spell (again her way of putting it).
This lady didn't like to mess around with words, she said what she saw etc – again her words, shes not letting me 'dress anything up' so please don't take offence, but it may help to place her.
Shes talking about this gentleman's funeral and saying that it should be a very simple one, that is what he wanted. Shes not making it clear to me but he may have been sent for a private cremation. Shes saying that its the memory of his life which is important to him so a wake wouldn't go amiss!
Shes telling me hes not ready to come through yet so hes asking her to just let everyone know hes ok and already can dance again and hes making me aware of ballroom dancing so I feel this is what he was good at.
I know he loved music and this was his real enjoyment the last few years of his life, his beloved radio and hes asking that it is please be looked after.
Shes telling me that hes asked her to say that he understands not many tears as it was known that he was tired and ready to go, but his body wouldn't give in.... his family all knew this and supported him and gave him 'permission to go' whenever he was ready. He doesn't want tears, he wants laughter and jokes about him and hes telling this lady that there are plenty of stories to go around!
I feel this gentleman passed a week ago, so that may help to place him. Hes telling me he was in a bed, and he could have been in a care home but I don't feel it was hospital but also I don't feel it was his home as such.
I'm sorry this is a confusing message but this gentleman really wanted to come through to let his family know hes fine already and yes, he did make the dog bark and hes sorry about that, hes got to learn about his 'new body which isn't a body' – again, strange words.
The lady isn't telling me who she is, but I do know shes been in Spirit for a very long while and could actually be this lovely gentleman's sister (I asked if 'mum' and got told no).
I really hope someone can take him, please let me know if you can and also please feel free to share.
With love and light,
Jane ###