03/11/2025
For Shona
Loneliness is not the absence of people - it’s the absence of understanding. You can be surrounded by company and still feel unseen, unheard, untouched.
It isn’t empty rooms that ache; it’s the weight of unsaid things pressing quietly against your chest.
The stories you’ve swallowed.
The truths you’ve softened.
The parts of you that never quite make it into words.
Healing begins when you dare to give voice to what has long been silenced … when you let your truth find air, even if your voice trembles.
It’s the slow, tender work of allowing yourself to be known. Known, not as the version you’ve learned to perform, but as the person you have always been beneath it all.
Connection starts there: in the courage to speak what matters, and to trust that someone will meet you in that sacred space between words.
And in time, you realise loneliness was never a life sentence - it was only a signal.
A call to come home to yourself, to reach out from truth rather than fear, and to let the world see the quiet miracle of your honest becoming.
I see you.
Art ~ Warren Caplan
‘Work in Progress’