17/01/2026
Grief
One we all experience.
Grief can come in many guises for many reasons. Its not limited to loosing a loved one from the physical world.
We can feel Grief for the loss of anything that we have an emotional connection to.
That may be a relationship break up, a child leaving the nest, loosing a job, our home, a friend who moves away and much more.
Human Grief can often be mixed with other emotions like guilt or shame, especially if its linked to something traumatic for us.
Both these emotions, and others are not ones animals experience, because they do not have a reasoning, analytical brain like us. We can overthink a situation and add our own narrative that gives our Grief an alternative persona.
The horses teach us about Grief in its base sense.
They have done so recently and their lesson was one of support and acceptance of the cycle of life.
We lost one of our dearest herd members on 30th December.
We have not mentioned this til now to allow Paul's human to work through her personal Grief.
We knew several weeks before that Paul's time was limited. The horses changed.
They became quiet and watchful. They stayed in a group at all times and their behaviour to Paul changed in some aspects. They were saying their goodbye.
The day Paul passed was in essence a beautiful one.
Olly was by his side, calm and just there. The herd came and stood quietly nearby. Very supportive and accepting.
The humans celebrated his life with cupcakes and our own goodbye in our own way.
Paul was our wise old man. About 40 to 45 years old and quite simply his body had worn out. He was his usual cheeky monkey self to the last.
Paul's passing reminded us of community. People and horses coming together to just be there for each other, nothing else.
We have focused on the gifts he gave us, rather than the pain of physical loss and together we have supported Olly, Paul's companion and his human as and how they have needed.
Thank you for reminding us what is important in life Paul.
Much loved and his legacy will live on as we teach his lessons to others.
🦄🌈 Paul ❤️ Enjoy your next adventure